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is read and discussed, with questions posed and answered by the author.
In addition, the skill-building Experiments which the author suggests during the Study Group are added for each session.
Further Study Group sessions will be posted at the next website:

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This website gives you links to the first 100 podcasts from the weekly Study Group,

where Building Love That Lasts / Radiant Joy Brilliant Love

is read and discussed, with questions posed and answered by the author.

In addition, the skill-building Experiments which the author suggests during the Study Group are added for each session.

Further Study Group sessions will be posted at the next website:

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Love already lasts. It is fear and confusion that force you to leave love behind.

Here is how to become an initiated adult from Archiarchy who sources Love in your life and in the world.

"Clinton Callahan is an original thinker."

–- Marilyn Ferguson

The Aquarian Conspiracy,

Aquarius Now,

Brain-Mind Bulletin Editor

"A rare book that will definitely wake you up. It's a must for those seriously interested in the path of conscious relationship."

--John Welwood

Journey of the Heart

Perfect Love, Imperfect Relationships

Love and Awakening

Toward A Psychology of Awakening

"For modern seekers, responding to the call for initiation into relationship, here is an open invitation."

--Malidoma Some

Of Water and the Spirit

Building Love...

Building Love That Lasts Book Reviews

I'VE NEVER BEEN MORE BENEFICIALLY INFLUENCED BY A BOOK THAN BY THIS ONE

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Reviewed in Canada on July 21, 2020

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After encountering Clinton and Possibility Management online, and experiencing the effect of the distinctions offered, I bought this book as well as buying Conscious Feelings. I have bought so many books in my life to help me heal, grow, and live a more extraordinary life…and sure, they have helped me. But this book…this book…is by far and away NEXT LEVEL. My world is changing, I am changing…in ways I have for my whole life hoped and dreamed might be possible. If I could dream it, surely that meant I could BE IT?! Yes, it is so, and this book, and the Possibility Management community of edge workers are bringing me the possibilities.

Nicole Hartley Bradford

NOT JUST FOR PARTNER RELATIONSHIPS

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Reviewed in the United States on January 14, 2008

Although the subtitle suggests that this book is for people who want to build a more satisfying relationship with a partner (and it is that), the book actually provides fundamentally new ways for creating and being in any relationship. Typically we entrap ourselves in a well-defended box made of unchallenged ideas, opinions, and values imposed upon us by our culture and peers. Relationships between boxes are what the author refers to as "ordinary human relationship," and it's the only kind of relationship most of us ever know. While the book alerts the reader to the existence of two higher levels of relationship (extraordinary and Archetypal) and guides him or her to those higher levels, a browser can gain substantive value by simply opening the book and reading a few pages at random. It's hard to avoid a new idea, an inspirational anecdote, or a challenging exercise that crawls its way into your psyche. But be forewarned. This is a dangerous book. On the back cover there's a disclaimer in a highlighted box that says, "Warning: You will not work with this book--this book works with you. This book is filled with memetic viruses--ideas that swarm through every level of your thinking, replacing any ideas they find that are formulated with less clarity. Your mind will not digest this book. This book digests your mind. If you do not want your present ideas about relationship seriously reordered, do not read this book." Take it seriously.

N. Lewis

CHOOSE TO LOVE, CHOOSE TO GROW, TAKE RESPONSIBILITY

5.0 out of 5 stars

Reviewed in the United States on June 4, 2010

A powerful Instrument for learning love by doing exactly what its reviewers claimed. You won't digest this book, it will digest you. Reading it is like importing a computer virus that replaces everything in your hard drive regarding love that was wishy-washy and full of victimhood and installs clarity and personal responsibility. The light is so bright it may hurt your eyes. Clinton Callahan establishes a new "possibility" language that builds on and synthesizes previous psychological models and creates powerful new personal growth tools for self and relationship. This book is the closest thing to a manual of Awareness and Awakening that I have ever encountered. There is no where to hide from yourself after you've read this book. If you read it, you will share it with everyone who is important to you and use the concepts and experiments revealed every day for the rest of your blessed life.

I THOUGHT THIS BOOK WAS FOR OTHER PEOPLE

5.0 out of 5 stars

Reviewed in the United States on January 25, 2008

I have been happily married for 33 years. Many of my friends and acquaintances have not. They are divorced, some several times. They are unhappy and unsatisfied in their current relationships. They have resigned themselves to an "OK" relationship, but the passion and energy for joining together with their partner in a deeper and vibrant life died long ago. When I heard someone talk about Radiant Joy Brilliant Love, I thought that the book was for them, the unhappy people, not for me. I already had a good relationship. My partnership was full of life. But, this book is explosive! It has given me so many new ideas for looking at my life and my relationship in vital ways that I never imagined before. I am so grateful for the serious time I've devoted to this challenging but rewarding book. I highly recommend it to anyone in a partnered relationship, even--perhaps especially--if they think their current relationship is as good as it can get.

Leela R.

NEXT LEVEL RELATIONSHIP BOOK - HIGHLY RECOMMEND

5.0 out of 5 stars

Reviewed in the United States on September 11, 2019

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Unbelievable relationship book. Clinton Callahan is a true thought pioneer and a brilliant writer. This is the single most powerful relationship book I have ever come across. I highly recommend it!

H. Keeling

AMAZING BOOK! BEST I'VE READ IN A LONG TIME - AND I READ A LOT!

5.0 out of 5 stars

Reviewed in the United Kingdom on November 28, 2013

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This book will take you on an amazing journey...teaching you to how live in the present, disengage from your inner gremlin and be capable of the highest love.
It touches on deep issues between men & women...how to be fully responsible for your life. There is no 'new age' advice - its all firm, practical, down to earth stuff. Nothing wrong with new age...but Clinton comes from the practical side.
I loved the book and I loved his writing style.
Buy it, buy it and get your friends to buy it too.

Bob S.

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Hohm Press in Arizona published Clinton Callahan's manuscript as Radiant Joy Brilliant Love in 2007 (ISBN-13: ‎ 978-1890772727). By 2019 this edition was sold out. The publisher wished to re-issue the book with a new ISBN number (ISBN-13: ‎ 978-1942493549), a new cover design, and re-titled as: Building Love That Lasts. Clinton wanted to add in the Matrix Codes for each of the book's powerful Experiments so that readers can register their Matrix Points in the StartOver.xyz game. All this has been accomplished keeping the contents of both books essentially the same.

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Weekly Study Group Podcasts

Building Love That Lasts Study Group Week #1

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. BECOME AN INITIATOR. Figure out what it is you need to learn, and then teach it. Meaning, you write about it, make a video, a website, give talks and workshops for Transformation into Adulthood. What you are learning is what you are teaching, and your teaching is alive,coming from your Integrity. What does the world need more than your Integrity?

Doing this allows you to take more conscious Responsibility towards Transformation and the ceation of NextCulture - Archiarchy. Archiarchy is the radical-responsibility-initiation-centered nonmaterial-value culture rapidly emerging around the world now that Matriarchy and Patriarchy have run their course. It is time for you to Take A Stand for delivering Initiations.

2. THINK ABOUT YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP. How did it begin? Did it begin out of a coincidence? Did it bring you a totally new experience in life? Did it change you? Many meaningful relationships emerge out of coincidences. This is the entity of life. It is how the universe moves you together with other forces. It is the intelligence of the 'Earth Coincidence Contol Office' (E.C.C.O). When E.C.C.O. has already moved you intelligently into relationships, why not radically rely on it? Throw yourself into a transformational path with E.C.C.O. moving you. Do this by becoming an Edgeworker. Your edge is your way of doing and being different from what you are used to. When you are changing, you Cause Transformation. Causing Transformation is being on a transformational path. It works vice versa. Go to your edge, stay there as long as you can. Can you stay there forever? Start before next week.

3. WRITE ON TOILET PAPER ' *I have to be perfect, I should be perfect, I will please my mom and dad if I am perfect, I'll be happier if I am perfect'. Now crumple it up and flush it down the toilet.

4. BE THE GREAT MOTHER BEING THE ALL Dedicate a certain amount of time each day (5 to 60 min) to let yourself Shift Identity from a personality-construct (= what you are identified with = your Box?) to being grounded and being the All. This allows you to get accustomed to being the Great Mother and stay grounded while doing this. Take your time with it. Practice being grounded into being the All. It takes practice to inner navigate and hold space for this force of nature (especially if you are male). This is the force of the feminine archetypal nature within you (see Archetypal Love). Move through rooms and brush your teeth like this. Eat an apple like this. Hold your child like this. Doing this gives you a broader connection into the vast feminine archetypal nature that is always accessible within a small now. After some weeks of practice, start speaking from there to your loved ones. Acknowledge the results.

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Building Love That Lasts Study Group Week #2

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. ARCHETYPAL LOVE BEING TO BEING EXPERIMENT Gaze into the eyes of people on the screen. Drop out of mind and notice the sensation of being connected. Notice the energetic connection we are having now. We are gathered together in the name of Love. Notice this happening in this space. Notice your physical sensations. Close your eyes and notice what color it is. Clinton calls it 'Yellow Stuff'. Bring this awareness into a WorkTalk or group of people and then speak about what is happening = Love happening. Tap into the Yellow Stuff. How many spaces can you open up with Yellow Stuff and then hold the space where the Love and mystery is alive?

2. KURT VONNEGUT JR. WROTE A BOOK that is on the PM Recommended Books titledCats Cradle. In this book Kurt Vonnegut writes, "Live by the foma that makes you brave and kind and healthy and happy." (The word 'foma' means 'harmless untruths'.) In another book, Mother Night, Mr. Vonnegut writes: "We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be." This Experiment is to intentionally Shift Identity so that you walk through your day being Brave, and Kind, and Healthy, and Happy. Then you have more Resources to go through Doorways, and more Possibilities to create Connection and Intimacies that feed you and the others in your deep Beings.

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Building Love That Lasts Study Group Week #3

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. BEING IN THE UNKNOWN. The territory of the unknown is accessed by holding space for your own Conscious Fear. Conscious Fear is one of your 4 Feelings. Feelings are neutral Resources that carry information and energy for you. They are not coming from your mind. Feelings are in your Emotional Body. They carry the intelligence of your heart. The feeling of Conscious Fear, intelligently connects you with everything. This includes everything you know and everything you don't know. Especially everything you might never know with your mind. Outside of the known is only the vast unknown. Which Resource is bigger? The known or the unknown? Where do you access more Possibilitiy? Here is a door to enter the unknown. Look someone in the eyes once a day, and for no reason say, "I don't know." Give no excuse, stand in your full Power, and be in the unknown when you do this. Stay in the unknown. Where do you take the conversation from there?

2. USING UNREASONABLE FORCES Reasons are made up by humans. This is the same with Beliefs. Everyone can make up any Belief about anything. Beliefs do not require you to be connected to reality. Nor do reasons! You can believe in any reason without any reason. Are you making up reasons? Then you are making up Fantasy Worlds. Have you ever made up a reason against something you deeply wanted to do? Which are the reasons you can make up right now to not keep reading? Do you get it? By creating these reasons, it is you who gives your Power away to the reasons! It is also you who takes your power back from them. With your Conscious Will you choose where you put your power. If you don't choose consciously, you choose unconsciously. Then you probably unconsciously put your power into reasons and Beliefs. You do not need to put your power into any reason or any Belief. Take your power back from reasons. Here is how it goes: Do something without any reason. Do this right in the beginning of a conversation, a WorkTalk, or any situation. Suddenly unreasonable forces gain acces to you. When you move forward being the vehicle for unreasonable forces, you are Going Unreasonable! Be Aware! One does not know before hand what will happen.

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Building Love That Lasts Study Group Week #4

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. ALCHEMICALLY TRANSORM 'WHAT YOU WANT TO HAVE HAPPEN' INTO 'WHAT HAPPENED' By trying to understand Archetypal Love or something Extraordinary (e.g. the 'Yellow Stuff') you try to hold onto the past. Therefore, what you are trying to hold onto is already gone. The mind is too slow. It's like when you are ropewalking. The moment you use your mind, you fall. Instead transform what you want to have happen using alchemy. Write down the Extraordinary that you want to have happen just the way it is. Do this using no opinions, no Beliefs , no reasons, no explanations. Using them would only make you fall out of grace about what you are writing down. Instead. Practice ropewalking. It happens in a very Small Now with no thinking and no analysis. Let Your Being name what you want to have happen. Write about it and then leave the paper and pen. You cannot undo what you wrote. It has been forever written. Your writing builds Matrix in you to Hold Space for the Extraordinary. Practice over and over again.

2. HAVE MULTIPLE IDENTITIES. Develop 1 or 2 characters who you can slide into. They have their own hobbies, intricacies, histories, could be different sexes, and talk in their own way with their own voice. Do once a day and for no particular reason Shift Identity into one of these characters. This expands rigidity and the grip of Your Box identity. Your Box is your childhood Survival Strategy. Many human beings tend to unconsciously stay in their Survival Strategy. Doing this is Creation of the Ordinary by having a Box-Life and being a Zombie. With less rigidity and grip of Your Box you gain acces to more Resources. By using your Conscious Anger to Shift Identity you become a Person Of Agency who Creates Possibility, Invention and you Cause Adventure. All this you do by Choosing your alternative character and playing it out. Are you in? Play it out once a day for 5 or 10 minutes.

3. STAY ON THE EDGE OF LOVE EXPERIMENT Being present means Being With what is. Being With what is, means you put Your Attention onto the present moment. The present moment can be called a Small Now. Which can only be NOW(!), because the future is yet to come and the past is already gone. Simple, right? But to Be With what is in the Small Now is easier said than done. It involves preperation, starting with Becoming Centered. Check out Becoming Centered if you are not familiar. Then continue here. In a Small Now you can find different Gaps. Start by looking for the Gap In Noise. First it takes your Noticing for the noise and then for the Gap inbetween the noise. Try this: When talking to someone, remain silent for 3 seconds longer before you say the next thing. Suddenly you Become Present in this Gap of Noise that you are opening up. This causes you to slow down. Now stay on this edge, and keep talking while staying in Connection with the Gap In Noise. You don't need to be in your head at all. Instead, endure the intensity and the fear from this edge. This edge is a Doorway to the Space where Love happens. (Note: After a month of Practice, use another Gap of the 9Gaps to Build Matrix)

4. GO FIND YOUR MATE FOR EXPERIMENTS. If you are single and on your own, go find someone right now for no reason and break all the rules. You don't need to use the construct of monogamy. Instead, Heal from Monogamy. You don't need to use any construct. Constructs are full of rules. They would be just in your way while experimenting. And you would be locked in by having locked in yourself. So, break all the rules and find someone. It isn't about sex, kissing or any physical contact. It's about interacting. There are numerous ways to be together in Experiental Reality and to Negotiate Intimacy. Choose from these 27 Experiments or any other experiment you come up with. Create a chamber of experiments like the alchemist has an oven with a lot of heat in it to work with. Tell the other person you need them for creating that heat in the experiential chamber. The chamber is your experiential space. Both of you can develop a Pirate character who has Power to break rules. Then break your own rules about what you cannot create. Become Creation. This can be your first experiment. Which rules are you both breaking? What do you create instead? Commit to your created chamber until it explodes. Then create the next one with the next person. Go and make yourself dirty. Otherwise you are not experimenting. Start by next week.

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Building Love That Lasts Study Group Week #5

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. SEND YOUR GREMLIN ASLEEP EXPERIMENT. When Your Gremlin is awake and alert, it will step in more actively when you are about to leave Your Box, your comfort zone, your Survival Strategy by doing an experiment that is Expanding Your Box. Your Gremlin feels the most home in there because it has been protecting Your Box since you created it. Automatically if you start to leave Your Box, Your Gremlin will feel scared and be anxious. Feeding Your Gremlin the foods it likes will make it go to sleep afterwards. Go feed it on purpose. Then do an experiment you feel Fear to do. (You can feel safer while stepping outside Your Box when Your Gremlin is asleep.)

2. PHYSICAL BEEP! SHIFT! GO! EXPERIMENT Als long as you are alive, you embody a Physical Body. For Your Box and Your Gremlin it is more difficult to make you neglect Physical changes than a thought or a decision. This way, your Physical Body is an excellent Resource to create Change. If you consciously move your Physical Body, you change your position. The next thing to do: Link your physical change with changing your Point Of Origin. Your Point Of Origin is from where you speak, declare, ask, choose, move, and hesitate to move. Practice changing your Point Of Origin to get outside of Your Box. Do a Beep! Shift! GO! by standing up, turning around and sitting down. From your new Point Of Origin, GO!

3. USE YOUR RED CLOTH EXPERIMENT You don't need to be a target. You can choose to be the target by taking in everything that is coming towards you. Notice that it is you who takes in. No one else takes in for you. You are taking in. Or you don't. To not take in, use your Red Cloth. It is one of your 13 Tools on your energetic toolbelt. When being attacked for being different, or outside society's Box, hold your imaginary Red Cloth to the side and let the energy go right by you into the Red Cloth. This allows you to stay in Connection to the world in present in time. You do not need to take in any attacks at all. Use your Red Cloth with instinctive skill and the speed of an awaken Torero!

To deepen your research, please visite Red Cloth and make the experiments you find there!

4. ANSWERING NON-LINEAER EXPERIMENT When asked a question, respond by not answering the question and start talking about something else. Become a Conscious Asshole who has the power to Choose what you are saying whenever you want. You never ever have to answer a question of anybody. You choose what you are saying. Consciously use Your Gremlin to go sideways and Nonlinear instead of answering in linear ways. Stay in Connection to the person you are with and the space you are in. Create a new space with your nonlinear answers. Do this especially when you are asked "how are you?"!

5. DE-MANTRA-ISE YOURSELF EXPERIMENT Everytime you are saying words like "um" and "fine", your are about to put yourself into a sleep-mode or a mantra. Being in a mantra makes you being less Centered, less Present, less in your Authority and less connected to your Being. Also you invite people around you to go into 'sleep mode'. Enough of that now! Here is the exercise: Practice getting rid of words such as "fine" and "um" and "hmm" and throw them onto your energetical compost. They will compost there on their own. Invite others to join your experiment. If you hear them say "um", ask them if they have a compost. If not, ask them if they want to create themselves one and Start Over what they were about to say.

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Building Love That Lasts Study Group Week #6

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. DO BABY-STEP EXPERIMENTS EACH DAY We become so easily sucked into ordinary routines because we have been trained for that. A way to break out of this habit is to do litte nano-step Experiments each day for a whole year (or your whole life!). You Shift Identity into being an Experimenter as a side-effect. Do 3-5 baby-step Experiments each day and be conscious while doing them. This constanty Builds Matrix in you, changes how you are engaging with the world, and what is possible for you.

2. MAKE YOURSELF INTERESTING ENOUGH FOR ECCO Because we are so much part of the interconnected web of life, there are forces in the universe which are ready to relate to us and support us on our Path. The Earth Coincidence Control Office (ECCO) is an intelligent force, coordinating the seemingly impossible. Sometimes it puts you into the exact right conversation or place you need to be for your next step. This experiment is to ask ECCO what is needed from you to become interesting enough for ECCO to move you into a faboulus Possibility. Go ahead and ask. Then do it.

3. BECOME & LIVE A QUESTION, & THE ANSWER WILL COME Because 'knowing' an answer will kill the Question it might be, that your questions get quickly answered by your unconscious conclusions and illusions, producing the ordinary results that you are used to get. Consciously Choosing to be a Question which is Holding Space unanswered brings forth the power of your Your Quest-Ions which are charged forces beyond your imagination attracting the answers to your Question. So - for how long can you hold your Question unanswered right down at your belly next to your Center?

4. HOLDINGS EXPERIMENT Modern culture feeds the Intellectual and Physical Body most. The 3 other of the 5Bodies (Emotional, Energetic, Archetypal) stay low fed and therefore you experience an unmet need for Love. The practice of Holdings is an essential act of healing your neediness instead of trying to fill it with physical or intellectual food-replacements. Organise yourself with 2 other persons of the same sex three Holdings a week for the next three months and get rid of your neediness. A good start to become a source of Love.

5. FROM 3 TO 1 - FIND OUT YOUR CHARACTER Humans are Choosing their Identities consciously or unconsciously. This Experiment is to watch 3 Movies from the PM Recommended Film List noticing 3 characters that you identify with. Write down in your Beep! Book the qualities which these three characters have in common. Become the ONE character made out of the qualities you have written down and see how it feels.

6. BECOMEING ATTRACTIVE TO A PARTER EXPERIMENT If you are not creating, you are not in the flow of universe. Having your own conversation helps you not to be a victim of the conversation from others, because you already HAVE your own conversation.

This Experiment is to not stop talking about what you are creating. Instead, by lavishly talking about it, you create a gravity well which sucks people into the Gameworld of your Creation. You will attract people who are attracted by the same interests as you are. This is extraordinary circumstance for Negotiating Intimacy.

7. START A POSSIBILITY TEAM BEFORE NEXT WEEK. A Possibility Team is to discover, explore and practice implementing thousands of Thoughmaps, Distinctions and exercise skills that are NOT given in Expand the Box Trainings and Possibility Labs. Your PTeam is your fellow group of researchers working with you on the edge of nextculture - Archiarchy. Find yourself a minimum 2 other Edgeworkers and meet weekly. One spaceholder at a time. 3hours of collaborative practice, feedback and coaching. Use Context Setting as your primary practice so that you are clear about what your purposes are.

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Building Love That Lasts Study Group Week #7

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. HOLD SPACE FROM THE LARGE EXPERIMENT Spaceholding is taking responsibility for the energetic level of a space. The first step for taking responsibility of a space is: You need to be aware of the energetic space. This means you need to be aware of being connected to it. Depending which space you are aware of being connected to you will hold a different space. When Holding space with group in a WorkTalk, a WorkShop or a Training, expand it to the bigger space of the world rather than the small space of your talk. By doing that, you implement one of the most important spaceholder-laws: The space determines what is possible. Find out what is possible.

2. PIRATE AGREEMENT FOR SUSTAINABLE CHANGE EXPERIMENT We have found that valuable sustainable changes truly happen by creatively collaborating in a consistent series of baby-step Emotional Healing Processes. You can do this! Make a pirate agreement with 3 or 4 other trainer type people. Ask for an Emotional Healing Process everytime when having an emotional Reactivity and shovel your way free into your Adulthood.

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Building Love That Lasts Study Group Week #8

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. YOUR CURRENT RELATIONSHIP IS YOUR EXPERIMENT GROUND Go to the place in you that has the question: Should I stay or shoud I leave a relationship? In this place you are probably weighting out ideas, risks, Possibilties and plans about what happens to the relationship if you do this or that. This puts almost all Your Center and with that your Power into the future and onto your own and the other persons Survival Strategies. You are not Living Full Out!

This Experiment is to relate to the current relationship as an Experiment ground for the next relationship. Where you are right now is where you can do Experiments. Doing them allows us to take bigger risks next time in the next relationship. Why would you think that this relationship is the only one you will ever have if you do not live full out in it?

2. CUT LOOSE FOR MAKING INTIMACY POSSIBLE Relationships don't die in the lack of Love. There always is an abundance of Love. They die in the lack of Intimacy. Intimacy can be created in million ways. Making a meal togehter with eyes blind, having a conversation only with questions and no answers allowed, talking to each other from the unknown, revealing what you are consciously arrogant about, and so on and on and on!

This Experiment is to create a laboratory with your friends in order to do Become Experimenters. Reveal to them your flame to Create the Experiments that can make Intimacy possible. Inside of yourself you already have everything you need. The inventor, Pirate, Experimenter, Edgeworker, Advernturer, sourceress, someone who radically wants to evolve, is already there. This is you! Take a Risk. Cut loose!

Whenever you are with someone, Live Full Out for what you want to create together. Harvest all you can. When the Experiment-chamber you created explodes, learn how to be with it, move on and create the next one!
NOTE: Also do real-time reality-checkings with people around you about the Fantasy Worlds you are in about what is possible and what is not. Ask for Feedback. Let your Fantasy Worlds fall together and find out what stays. Create your next intimacy Experiment from there.

3. CHECK YOUR PURPOSE Everything has a purpose, either unconscious or conscious. This proposal is to do Experiments with conscious purpose. Look at your words and question the framework with wich you are Speaking. Are you trying to fit into a framework? Are you trying to fit everything into the Map of your Fantasy World by Navigating relationships spaces towards a certain goal or end that you want to accomplish? By that, you are NOT relating with reality.

The only way we have found so far to be in Reality is by Becoming Present. Only in presence you can Choose consciously. Choosing consciously elimintates the space in you for unconscious choices. Once you are present, consciously Choose to use the Map of Bright Principles as your framework from which you are speaking and creating. Make sure you are functioning in the framework of your Bright Principles and that your Bright Principles are in your heart and body, not just your mind.

NOTE: If you haven't destilled and chosen your Bright Principles reach out to Vera Franco for more Information (http://www.verafranco.org)

4. SHIFT IDENTITY Try Shifting Identity from one to another. Shrink your Now small enough to slip sideways through the Gap between identities. Notice how you can see both identities. The identity that 'I am not good enough' is one identity. The identity that 'I am the best' is another identity. Both are made up, crazy and both carry the risk of making yourself being alone, victimized or hero-ized. Is that what you want? After having your answer: Notice also the Space where you have no identity. Being in the Gap of Identities is groundless, because the nature of Reality is groundlessness.

Who are you if you have no identity? Identities help you to function in a certain way because they give you certain skills, knowledge, characteristics, language, behaviour etc. and still, they are made up and instable.

Yet, Choose an identity that functions in creating what really matters to you, because the identity 'I am not good enough / the best' might just be less practical for bringing your Visions, Quests and Achetypal Lineage down to Earth or create directly from the Gap.

5. MAKE IDENTITY SHIFTS IN OTHERS VISIBLE We Shift Identities multiple times a day, often as an unconscious use of our Survival Strategy. Sometimes it seemingly works best when I am theglad shiny girl or the curious boy or the intelligent student or the sexy lady / dude or the cool, bragging man / women or the helpess child or the 'I don't understand anything' or the 'I am so overwhelmed' or the 'I cannot do this' or the 'I already know everything'* or or or. When you are with someone and they shift identities, show them the two identities that you saw them exhibiting. Ask them what is going on for them after you tell them?

This gives them and you a chance to Become Authentic with yourself and each other because Becoming Authentic about your inauthenticity is the first step of taking the masks off. It reveals your true Feelings, vulnerability and your inner messes. You open a Space of Possibility for Connection and Intimacy stepping out of the show(s).

6. CALL THE IDENTITY IN SOMEONE YOU WANT TO TALK TO

If someone approaches you with a certain identity that you clearly do not want to talk to, you have a choice to make. Either you accept their offer with silent acquisence, maybe disgrace, or you tell them who you want to speak to. Tell them: 'I don't want to speak to the self-doubting creature in you, I want to speak to your Warrior.' If they accept, you keep engaging. If not, you make an appointment with them for another lifetime speaking to the self-doubting creature. You have this power.

PS: If you don't see it, check out your identity.

7. PARTICIPATE IN THE EXCHANGE OF FEEDBACK

Seeing yourself without a mirror requires a lot of Clarity and always carries the potential of self-illusion. This is different if you get decent feedback. Feedback is your mirror for seeing yourself clearly. It is an essential tool for Building Matrix to be able to hold more Consciousness. Breathing has two directions of movement, so has the Evolution of Consciousness. In and Out. You can support your Evolution of Consciousness by inhaling and exhaling extra Clarity.

There is places and people who provide Clarity if you go and speak to them (inhaling). This Experiment is to ask other Edgeworkers for Feedback: 'What results am I creating? How can I bring different results? Please give me Clarity and Possibilitiy!'.

There is also people who are asking for your Clarity (exhaling). Giving them your Clarity sharpens your Clarity. Ask for Feedback again! You are participating in the Evolution of Consciousness.

**8.*EXPERIENTIAL REALITY Get 1 or 2 persons to do an Experiment. First you give them Clarity about what an identitiy is (a manufactured character you unconsciosly or consciously Choose). Then go to a mall or town for 2 to 3 hours. Sit and watch people. Alternating tell stories about their realities. Do this for many people. Look at people for who they are and who they aren't. Meaning, look for where their identity ends and there is free space left, space of nothing. This gives you access to the Possibility what people are not and widens the Gap to see their potentials. We built ourselves all these identities and there is acutally huge space of nothing inbetween that can be filled with all sorts of identities. Fill it for them and have fun doing this!

9. WHY DO YOU WANT TO GET IT?

People put their Center into their mind to be able to understand what is going on. This might be false safety in the Hidden Purpose of Control of relationship. Your mind is TOO SLOW to get relationship. Relating is an alive process, not a math sheet to be understood. Trying to understand it takes you out of the creative collaboration that relating naturally is. Put your energetic Center back onto your physical Center and let your Center think for you. Put your mind into the refrigerator or back into school where they can fix it, since they made you believe thinking is all that counts.

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Building Love That Lasts Study Group Week #9

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EXPERIMENTS:

**1.*BEEING HOOKED IS YOU HOOKING YOURSELF

Read the Parts-website and check if you can acknowledge having many many Parts. Each Part has a different agenda. The Parts themselves call their agenda a 'need', an 'urge', an 'addiction' or however you want to call it. Some of your Parts want to take you out of your agenda. They will try to hook you by having back and forth conversations in your mind all day long. The purpose is to eat up your energy.

If you keep Building Your Matrix by naming, healing, holding and distinguishing your Parts, eventually a Hook comes your way from the inside or outside and you notice that it is there before you are hooked. That's when you can decide to stay Centered and hold the Red Cloth up to the side and the Hook goes by or put the Red Cloth in front of you and it hits you impactfully, throwing you off Center.

2. WHEN SOMETHING HAPPENS TO YOU

Sudden shocks or news can take you out of your presence. The way to put yourself back into the Present including the shock or the new thing is a Process called 'As Is-ing Process'. You will need another person who can hear and hold space for you. Go back to the moment right before the new circumstance started. From there let each of your 5 Bodies share was is happening for them in present tense 'as you go through what happened'. Speak from your Emotional, Physical, Intellectual, Energetic and Archetypal Body how they are impacted. This way you integrate the shock of the news and its energy can flow through your body. You are back to yourself in your presence.
Not sharing and integrating leaves a Gap and can cause confusion and the inability about how to handle certain situations.

3. CREATE YOURSELF A VOICE FREE INNER WORLD

Your inner voices occupy your space and eat up your energy if you let them. You have put a Zoo (of praise, blame, ideas, shoulds, must, etc.) into your mind by listening to your Parent Ego-State all day long. There is millions of other great Zoo-Keepers around you in the world. They all are pretending that this is real.

But have you ever been in the presence of no voices? In the silent space of the now and nothing? Have you even been in the voice free presence together with another human being? This is the real experience of a Free And Natural Adult Ego-State. Love is happening in a small NOW. No stories, no voices attached. The voices tell stories. Stories happen in time. Time is not in the small now. So you have to Choose between the story or the small Now. To make these stories go away, shoot them with your Voice Blaster. Shoot them visciously, voriciiously, verifiyably. Don't worry about that they might starve of hunger. There is plenty other Zoo-Keepers in the world that will take care of them - BANG!

**4.*WOMEN: CREATE TRANSFORMATIONAL ADVENTURE JOURNEYS WITH MEN Try to use this Clarity when you are about wanting to offer something to a man that you know he doesn't know how to get there and what to find there. First, be clear about what you are offering: Your offer is a Negotiation to a transformational Adventure journey created from your Magician, Pirate, Sourceress, Inventoress, Adventuress Witch.

Second: If you only have Connection with a man where he is, you are not gonna get anywhere with him. If you only connect with him from where you want to be with him, he will cluelessly stay standing at the next corner unable to follow you. It's time to use you Inner Resources For Connection - Third:

For invitations to a man to work out, you must have one foot where the man is and one foot where Possibility is. Like this you are with him and where you want to go in the same time.

Your are making an archetypal offer for him to come with you on the journey.

**5.*STOP GIVING FEEDBACK AS PRAISING AND BLAMING

Praise and Blame are an impersonal expression of your Feelings and Emotions about something or someone. You are making it about them. This is part of the Manipulation game called Low Drama because you are hiding yourself while trying to shape the other person. What's your purpose? Why not making it personal?

Everytime we learn something, we change. If we do not change, we didn't learn anything. If you have something to praise or blame, you are obviously affected by it. But you are not transparent about what changes in you.

'Oh that was great, you explained it so well, gosh you are annyoing, you never understand, again you did it wrong.'

Share what you received from another person and cut out completely your praise and blame. Make it something that is real for you by Radically Relating to the other person. Actually share what you got from the other person, for example your next Question, your next Experiment or Practice or tell them what you want to do next by being inspired listening to them.

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Building Love That Lasts Study Group Week #10

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. STOP FILLING YOUR EMPTINESS - DO THE OPPOSITE

As we grow up from being handykapped, wounded creatures we develop an inner emptiness, a hole in ourselves, that is asking to be filled. This is your Child Ego-State speaking. Do you catch yourself trying to fill the hole with food or making your partner responsible for being the one that makes it go away?

We discovered that as we grow up we actually need that inner emptiness in the middle of our Adult Ego-State for being able to Create out of nothing! For the Child-Ego State it sounds totally threatening. For your Adult and Archetypal-Ego States the resource of Nothingness to create is essential. Have a conversation with the emptiness inside you so it doesn't need to be filled. Change your relationship to it and use at as an Inner Resource to create from.

2. LEAVE YOUR OBSOLETE GAMEWORLDS BEHIND

Create your own Gameworld outside of the Patriarchy rather than trying to change you old Gameworlds. They are exactly designed to function the way they are functioning. Changing them would be like trying to make a wheel out of a ladder. It costs you enormous effort and others would probably see this as a great opportunity to complain about what you are doing. You end up in a Low Drama with Gremlins fighting each other. We successfully fight the existing Gameworlds not by changing them but by creating new ones, that make the old ones obsolete. In fact, they are already obsolte. If you have Problems with your old Gameworlds, leave them behind. Create a new one. Gather 2-3 People to support each other in this process. Together read the Gameworld Theory website and help each other to not tangle up in your Low Dramas. Discover your own Potentials, your Inner Resources and the Infinite Resources, your Bright Principles, Your Teams, Your Quest, your Archetypal Lineage and maybe most important: Your next step! These are great forces ready to suppoort you on your Path.

**3.*HAVE A MOTHER GRADUATION CEREMONY

Believe it or not, being a Mother has an end. On the bright sides and on the dark sides. In case you mothered your children in modern culture, we tell you that if you want, this horror has an end. CAUTION: There will be a lot to grieve. AND there is a life after..

When your kids are young Adults and engage in Low Drama it is time to retrieve your real name, reconnect with Gaia and find your next transformative magician warrioress queen goddesses purpose! Go have a Mother Graduation Ceremony (see the website) with a circle of your friends witnessing your Graduation and signing your Graduation Certificate. The time when you had leverage to give your children what they need has passed since 5-10 years ago. If you continue to play the role of 'Mother' of your children after their 18th Birthday, you undermine their ability to face their inintiations on their own.

Now it is your time to move on and let these young Adults do their thing. You can put yourself into a new Point Of Origin (something different than being a Mother) by Changing Your Mind, Declaring and Choosing to participate in ongoing initiations into nextculture - Archiarchy.

**4.*EXIT YOUR OWN ORDINARY MECHANICS

Take your Beep! Book and write down some of the 122 Ways to create ordinary relationship that are familiar to you.

Ordinary relationship contains creating Low Drama. Extraordinary relationships are created out of High Drama.

Writing down your ordinary mechanics opens either a doorway to an Emotional Healing Process (EHP) or ways to transform yourself from Ordinary To Extraordinary doing an Experiment. You might feel something while you write down your ways of being ordinary. Put a *sign behind 3 of the mechanics which intensely make you feel mad, sad, scared or a mix of these emotions. Each one is one EHP. Doing them is already extraordinary.

Additionaly you experiment with Change Your Mind. Your mind = Your mechanics. You can Change Your Mind about anything because it is yours. Or isn't it?Say: 'This is who I have been..., and I change my mind. I am...'

Do 4 to 5 Practices including the EHPs and share them with your discoveries in the Possibility Creation Village Telegram Group.

5. CHOOSE IN WHICH CULTURE TO LIVE IN

If you have gotten so far to listen through the previous podcasts and are reading this Experiment, you are interested in radical stuff! This involves making radical choices: By now you know about the choice between surviving in Partriarchy or living in Archiarchy.

Trying to do both causes huge pain. You need a lot of energy to neglect this pain if you want to endure it without changing anything. Actually you are just back in Patriarchy with a high Numbnessbar neglecting your Feelings and Emotions. One of the patriarchal symptoms is, people are spending their time and energy for something they do not like to do but convince themselves of having to do it because they convince thyselves that this is the only way possible. Therefore, for most people their Survival Strategy seems like life because they haven't been educated differently.
We say, survival is survival. Living is living. They are distinct and if you are doing something out of survival, you are not living. The assumption is, that if you are working in a corporate company, this is a result of your Survival Strategy because if you are giving away your Power to someone in a Hierarchy, you are paying the very expensive price of giving your Authority away. And why would you do that exept out of unconscious survival?

Do the Emotional Healing Process (EHP) about how you made it for youself to give your Authority away in regard of your own survival. Then quit your coroporate Job and Hold Space for EHPs for money.

**6.*BUILD UP YOUR NEXTCULTURE SHAMANISM ANGER SKILLS Navigate your inner anger and provide sessions for other people. Doing this is part of nextculture - Archiarchy. In Archiarchy we give away navigation skills, Clarity and Space Holding as one way to share the Infinite Resources we have access to. We use them for grounding the foundation of our culture into the immaterial world. Navigating your anger makes you hold space for certain Bright Principles. For example Clarity, Integrity and Authenticity are three Bright Principles that are nourished by anger. Navigating your anger makes space for these Bright Principles. For immaterial stuff different rules apply than for material stuff.

They become more the more you give them away. Helping others to heal themselves by skilling them up with their Conscious Anger is nextculture shamanism - instead of keeping it for yourself. Helping someone to reconnect to their Conscious Anger provides them a huge resource for their Clarity. Every person you skill up with their anger, is bigger Clarity in the world. Now they can share it and so on and so on. Fantastic stuff!

Give away what you already know and learned. Use your Feelings to take Radical Responsibility.

7. GIVE YOURSELF A DAY BEING SOBER ON LOW DRAMA Once a week take a 24h day and forbid yourself to go to victim and hence Low Drama. See if you can be with Your Gremlin at your side and stay grounded. Figure out a way to do it. To help make this work out, find High Drama while you are doing this.
NOTE: Don't beat yourself up if you find yourself in Low Drama. Just say: 'Oops, stop Gremlin! Go drink water and breathe air. I am going back to High Drama.'

**8.*MAKE YOURSELF SEEN IN HIGH DRAMA Take Radical Responsibility for what you want. Make yourself seen. Go to a town meeting of your town and start speaking about what you want for your town.

'I want our main street to be depaved, I want our town being a town for the people instead of the cars'. Be seen and see what happens. This is High Drama.

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Building Love That Lasts Study Group Week #11

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. PUT THE POOP ON THE TABLE! - IN A TEAM When listening to 122 ways of creating Ordinary relationships, find something that you can relate to, make a note about it in your Beep! Book. During the week get together with 2 or 3 other people and create Experiments you can try in order to replace the behavior that creates Ordinary relationship. This is not necessarily a pleasant journey. It's putting your Poop On The Table!. You are figuring out what you don't know that you don't know about. What is hidden is put into the open. Use your Fear and Sadness to look at the things that have been invisible.

Most of what you will find are your protections against Intimacy. This is due to most people are identified with their defense strategy. If you stay naive (in Denial, Fantasy Worlds, Lying, Prejudices and Reasons) to these behaviors, these patterns will continue running in your life.

If you figure out the way you prisoned yourself in, you can unprison yourself. The way out is the way in. And if the purpose of the universe is the Evolution of Consciousness, we have work to do. It is the death and resurrection show ongoingly because change doesn't happen through understanding. Change doesn't happen in the mind. It happens trough Transformation in your 5 Bodies.

**2.USE YOUR FRIENDS HELP FINDING WAYS TO SHIFT Trying the same ways over and over again is optional and only indirectly contributing to the Evolution of Consciousness on planet Earth. Whenever something doesn't work out, we call that a Beep!. You get it as a form of feedback from the Universe. It's valuable feedback saying 'This did not work.'*

Feedback is valuable information for you to use. If you are trying the same way again, you are ignoring the feedback. OR your purpose is to get the same Beep!s FOREVER. Some people dedicate their life to the endless repetition of Beep!s as a way of Revenge. If this is you - read more about the purpose of Revenge using this LINK.

In this Experiment, we are about to take another door: If doing the same way again is optional, then doing it different is optional too. This new option is called doing a 'SHIFT'. And actually doing the new way rather than just preparing for it is called 'SHIFT & GO!'

When you hit the wall again about something, you smash your head for the Xth time in a relationship, a plan for your life, an application, a move to make, call up 2 of your people and ask for help to SHIFT to another way to be. Ask them to Hold Space for you and come up with new options, new Possibility to try.

You do not need to know how the SHIFT works. It's different from your behaviour before. This is all you need. No understanding, no calculation, no assumptions, no false-security nessecary. Do it and see how it goes. You receive valuable and especialle NEW information, because you have tried a new. Use this new information to either keep going if it works or find new ways to SHIFT again if you get a Beep!. It is that simple - not easy - simple!
NOTE: If you end up in 'I am doing it wrong everytime, I will do it even wronger next time, I will never learn how to do it right', you are in the swamp. The swamp is a Survival Strategy place in you. You probably built to knock yourself out because it was safe there. No one bothered with you anymore and you didn't have to risk anything again. Fine, and being there drains your energy. The SHIFT is to GO! back from swamp-mode into SHIFT-mode, ask your friends what to do differently and GO! again.

3. PUT YOUR POWER INTO A SMALL NOW INSTEAD OF EVERYWHERE ELSE Freaking out and panicking before a talk in the next days means you have put your Center into the future. You are producing your own stage-fright. Having your Center in the future takes puts your Power away from the now. You can shift into having your energetical Center at your physical Center in a Minimized Now. From there, you can ask your Fear 'Hello Fear, what do you have for me?'. Your Fear will have answers: 'Write down these three Distinctions for opening the space of your talk.'You write them down.Ask your Fear again: 'Anything else?'. If not, you are done, you have your preparation for the talk.Keep your Center in the Minimized Now and see how the stage-fright is only in the future. You have your preparation. By living Radical Reliance onto your own preparation, you are not the stage-fright.

**4.*BECOME AN ASSUMPTION SHERLOCK HOLMES - TALK TO WATSON Anyone can assume anything about anything. If you assume your Assumption is true it will turn into an Expectation. Even the smallest Expectations will most probably turn into Resentments, because they are so likely to be not met. The other person would have to accidentaly get your exact Expectation out of millions of options. The chance that this happens is high, and already having 1% Resentment will kill intimacy because you hold secret disgrace against the other person. Not knowing this can create crucial results, because you might unconsciously prevent the intimacy, that you are longing for. Putting your Assumptions on the table and is how you get out of this fraud. Take away your silent secret of believing in your Assumptions. Check them out together with the other person. This is how you can let go of your Assumptions and Expectations.

**5.PRACTICE CULTURAL RELATIVITY AS A SKILL OF KEEPING YOUR CENTER Connect with other people/cultures without giving your Center away. Be amazed with their culture. Use it as form of entertainment. Ask Questions from amazement and curiosity rather than trying to change someone. Find out about their culture. 'What is it like for you, how do you handle this.....what do you do with your Feelings?'* Possibility Management is not the solution or the only way to live. Free up your energy with other things and thoughts. Make yourself be inspired from what you learn from other people's culture because no culture is true or false. They are just Gameworlds with their own set of rules, distinctions, levels of responsibility, traditions, etc. .

Curiosity is your transformational agent.

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Building Love That Lasts Study Group Week #12

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EXPERIMENTS:

1. CHOOSE OPTIONS THAT ARE NOT OFFERED IN MODERN CULTURE Patriarchy is not the only way of living. How have you given away your personal ability of Choosing and live a wider variety of alternatives than are offered on the menue of western culture / Patriarchy?

To get your Power back, for this week, choose as many attitudes and actions that are not offered in modern culture. Write them down and do them with your friends. There is thousands of Possibilities. These can be very subtle things. Shake hands differently each day for a week. Start eating before the men sit and start eating. Offer the person in front of you in the queue to read them a Poem out loud. Choose to love your Partner more that anything. More than your most expensive objects. And so on and on and on.

Send what you wrote down to Clinton Callahan - clinton (at) nextculture.org

2. TAKE EACH OTHER THROUGH PROCESSES OF RECLAIMING POWER How do you reclaim the power to choose from all options possible instead of choosing from the limited options that are presented to you from the outside? The Golden Key is to find out how you are specifically pretending that you do not have the power of Choosing.

Your power of Choosing what you do or don't do is inalienable.

If you are not using this power this is because you are pretending to not have this power. Take each other through the Emotional Healing Processes about what is blocking yourself from accessing your Power and how you deny the inalienable forces you carry inside of yourself.

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EXPERIMENTS:

**1.*STOP YOUR SELF-CRITICISM FOR A WEEK Make an agreement with yourself for this week. No criticising yourself at all for a whole week. There is actually nothing that matters enough that you would have a reason to self criticise you. Since you dropped out of school and moved out from your parents, there might be no one who cares about your failures anymore. If there is, is it your Problem?

Every time you want to judge yourself, Cause Adventure instead. Micro, Semi, Minor, Major, doesn't matter. Adventure is Adventure. You use the energy you have in abundance from not criticising yourself anymore.
NOTE: Don't beat yourself up if you cannot come up with an Adventure. Pick the Adventure how to create Adventures. Who is supposed to know how something you have never done before is done? No one.

2. BE THE ONE WHO CHALLENGES PEOPLE TO CREATE You are a genius and masterpiece already. Otherwise you wouldn't be here banging the big drum of life. Correct?
But, this doesn't mean the world turns around you. Your turn with it. You contribute like everyone and everything else. If you have a Question or something that you feel or think is needed in the world, go challenge someone to Create that thing in relation to your challenge.
You have the question, someone else might have the skills. They might invent a Book, a film, a machine, a Process, a Training (Rage Club, Rage Club Spaceholder, Fear Club, Fear Club Spaceholder, Village Weavers, Intimacy Journeyers, Possibility Mediation, Possibility Coaching, ETB, Evolutionary) an Article, a Gameworld, a Team, a Group, Archiarchal Music, a Website, a gathering or provide a new Distinction. By challenging you create neccessity in the other person to create what is needed to be created.

GO!

3. BE PREDICTABLE FOR 3 DAYS IN A ROW For the next 3 days on Purpose only make linear offers to your partner and your friends. Usually the purpose to do this is to be nice, friendly, undangerous, safe and to create some sort of vanilla flavour. Only choose what is already known, say things that you have said in the past, make invitations that you have already made before, welcome your partner the same way each day, say the same things everynight before you go to bed. Be predictable. This is living an Ordinary life in extreme and sharpens your view for the Ordinary that you have so far kept well secret out of your own awareness.

4. CHOOSE FROM OPTIONS THAT ARE NOT ON THE MENUE

Your Job is to do every little Experiment you can do. Evolution of Consciousness does not happen by a big waking up of humankind. Every little step you do in changing yourself changes the human morphogenetic field. Whenever you go sideways trying a new track, a new way, you put a hole into the wall that someone else will find and be able to go through. Go and make holes by Choosing options that are not on the menue of (your own) Standad Human Intelligence Thoughtware that is promoted by modern culture. Living an Extraordinary life in Archiarchy is the ongoing collaborative creation in each moment between adult initiated women and adult initiated men. Go Nonlinear and you have a whole Life Of Practice ahead.

5. SELF OBSERVATION Carefully observe the bars of your patriarchal prison until they go fuzzy and melt down. The laws to see something a certain way melt down.

This reveals that patriarchal distortions are imaginary. You don't see that until you observe it. By scrutinising the Patriarchy it unfolds clarity in you that consciously subverts the patriarchy.

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EXPERIMENTS:

0. LEARN TO DO SELF OBSERVATION WITHOUT MASOCHISM

Self Observation usually equals criticism, which equals masochism. This is not what we are promoting. There is already enough masochism in the world.

Instead, learn to do Self Observation with neutrality. Move your attention outside yourself and say ( 'O' ) whenever you notice something. The( 'O' ) is aspace like the number 'zero'with a Nothingness in it. All the stories you have about criticising, belittling and punishing yourself dissolve in there. Notice all the dimensions of the reasons, causes, Triggers and the benefits for Your Gremlin with the simply neutral ( 'O' )..

The( 'O' ) is not an 'oh my gosh' or an 'oha'. It is simply the space of

( 'O' ).

1. SELF OBSERVATION WORK OF PATRIARCHAL MEMES IS AHEAD OF US Look at what you are looking with by building a data-bank of Self Observation. This means, start to observe yourself in what you are thinking, saying and doing. Observe the Thoughtware you are thinking with. It does not matter if what you observe is completely contradictory to each other. You are not one. You are Many. You are a Zoo of Parts.

Self-observe the Parts of Patriarchy in yourself as one of your data-bank slots. Where are you using patriarchal Thoughtware? You think in the categories of right and wrong, good and bad ? Have you shut down your intuition and numbed your Feelings? Do you think there is scarcity in love and you have to compete with others about getting enough love? Do you wake up in the morning and count your enemies? Who are you arguing with in your head blaming them from them moment you wake up?

We call patriarchal elements of thinking patriarchal Memetic Viruses or patriarchal Memes. Memes are the core instructions of your Thoughtware. You have put all sorts patriarchal Memes in yourself probably out of your Survival Strategy so to be able to survive in Patriarchy. You are not your Meme. You are not the Patriarchy. But to exit the Patriarchy, first you need to find the patriarchal Memes in yourself.

Use your Self Observation to track patriarchal Memes and write them down in your Beep! Book. Give them a name. This gives you the Power to Disidentify from these Memetic Viruses and loosen their Grip on you.

2. SUBVERT YOUR PATRIARCHAL MEMES If you are born into a worldview beyond which you parents cannot see, how can you? Well, you have have found a way out and made the effort to become an Edgeworker. You are liberating yourself from the restraints of your old worldviews and put yourself into an ongoing state of not having the numbing comfort of falling asleep. At the edge, you cannot fall asleep, otherwise you are not at the edge anymore. Here is next wake up Experiment: In everyday life, whenever you catch a patriarchal Meme in yourself say: 'This is a patriarchal Idea. I am not the Patriarchy.' Then Choose to do something different than the patriarchal Meme summons you to do.

3. USE PATRIARCHAL MEMES AS DOORWAYS Organise yourself multiple Emotional Healing Processes to exit the patriarchal Memes you wrote down step by step. Using your Self Observation to learn what you have been unconsciously thinking with is part of researching your Underworld. If you were born and raised in the Patriarchy, you have been suckling in the patriarchal Memes with your mothers milk. Questioning how they are implemented into your Underworld expands your awareness, which is the Key to exit the Patriarchy.

This is not a painfree process because you might get new and authentic answers from within yourself about who you are. This might be what you were missing while being born and raised in patriarchal modern culture.

Start each EHP with completely neutrally self observing your patriarchal Meme. Declare that it is irrelevant if what you observe is pleasant or not. No judgements. Eventually, when you are looking with enough awareness and clarity, the patriarchal Meme will start to dissolve and you will feel the Emotions about having spend your life inside of this prison while abandoning Your Beings Integrity.

Use your skill to Consciously Feel from your Adult Ego-State. Using this skill, you are not a victim of your Emotions and your Feelings anymore. Flow with them. You are receiving their neutral Energy and Information for you to be used for your Healing and for the Creation you are destined to Create.

**4.*PUT YOUR PARENTS BEHIND YOU AND START LIVING YOUR LIFE Go back to them moment when you have put your parents in front of you. Acknowledge that they brought you here on planet Earth and you lived in some respect following their orientation or the orientation they were oriented towards. This is a nature of being a child and a totally appropriate and noble decision for being able to survive. In your ancestral line you are the next person after your parents. Imagine having your parents ongoingly in front of you for your orientation beyond your childhood. You are oriented towards them for all your life. Being orientated towards them is changeable. Changing this is nessecary if you decide to live as an adult initiated women or man in Adulthood.

The way to change this is by Changing You Mind about who you are and who your parents are and where they are.

Say thank you to them and put your parents behind you. For each one remember at least one thing you can truly admire and respect and then you can put that parent behind you, with everything else you have taken with you until now.

Like this you are free from your parents forever. If someone asks you about your parents, tell them the story of your admiration.
**5.*USE YOUR CONSCIOUS ANGER TO CHANGE YOUR SHAPE OF BEING Do high intensity Anger in order to keep your Center and your Space and not give it away. Make boundaries, get Space back. This changes the shape of Your Being.

There is multiple Rage Clubs online and offline happening in the world. Rage Clubs are extremely safe and extraordinary spaces for you to reconnect with the archetypal force of your Anger and held spaces for you to learn how to use its energy and information for being able to take care of yourself and Create.

Check out the online Possbility Management Events TeamUp-calendar HERE or the Possibility Management Global Events Telegram Group HERE.

6. BRING FORTH WHAT IS WITHIN YOU SO YOU ARE NOT EATEN UP Express your Feelings and Emotions with one or two other people 2 or 3 times a week. Remove an Energetic Block, connect with something you gave away to survive, make a new decision. It makes a difference when someone can Hold Space and witness your Feelings. Being in Your Team while doing these little Completions will add an catalytic element to your Transformation. It will look like baby-steps or nano-steps but having two people Being With you will move you forward because your Emotions are completed layer after layer. If you keep feeling them just for yourself, you go in circles, because they stay uncompleted.

Said in a more radical way: If you bring forth what is within you, it will save you. If you don't, it will destroy you.

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Building Love That Lasts Study Group Week #15

http://www.nextcultureradio.org/blog/radiant-joy-brilliant-love-week-15

EXPERIMENTS:

**1.*REVIEW YOUR INTEGRITY ABOUT YOUR NAME If you ask people to call you by another name besides the name on your passport, this is a sign of incongruency. There is some energetical conflict in you to be looked at. Maybe Your Gremlin is putting a show on about who you pretend to be, but you are not. Maybe you are scared of acutally Choosing to Become Authentic and to Take A Stand for who you are! Maybe you are using the other name to make up a Fantasy World so you can think you are not affected by the identity and the stories of your pevious name. That all would be ways of living in Denial of who you are. Create Integrity and check out what is really going on behind your new name.

2. CAN YOU AFFORD A LIFE BELOW YOUR NUMBNESS BAR? Have the courage to get below your Numbness Bar this week and feel the pain below, especially Anger, Fear and Sadness. The pain is transformational fire. Feel your pain around the Patriarchy etc. Don't be a victim of your pain. Your are going below your Numbness Bar out of Clarity, not out of victimhood. Feel it and then use the pain for Evolution. Do the EHP's so you can hold your Sword Of Clarity. Doing your EHP's will give you Clarity that you use in Holding Space for others.

**3.*MEN Arrange for 15 Women to give a group of you feedback about how the Patriarchy affects Women. Make this space go on for one hour. Break open as the Women go on speaking from their fiercful broken hearts, desirering to be equally met on eyelevel and on heartlevel. Listen to them. Listen to their Anger, their Fear, their Sadness, their Sorrow, their Grief, their Rage, their Forgiveness, their brokenness and their Love. Stand in what you are hearing. Keep breathing while you are supported to face into Reality. Your Job is to receive and let things burn. Just listen......

**4.*BECOME A FEELINGS WORK COACH Become a person who Holds Space for others as a coach for Feelings Work. Help people Unmix Emotions, do EHP's, and then become free of corporate jobs. Walk with your vagera Sword of Clarity as a Transformational Agency and get paid for that.

5.*Women: Say what you want in relationships. Don't pander to Patriarchy.
*6.SHIFT CONVERSATIONS WITH YOUR QUESTIONS** Get better about creating shifts in a conversation which sometimes can happen through questioning. Go Nonlinear. Stay in Connection with Clarity if the other person gets Hooked and tries to defend themselves with their Gremlin.

Out of your Research, Create yourself a List 10-15 questions that have proven power to work for shifting conversations. Use them!
**7.*LOW DRAMA IS CREATED BY MYSELF Every time I end up in Low Drama, it means I wanted Low Drama. I ask myself what Part of me wanted this? Especially if I make sarcastic comments. Get to know your Parts. Look at this website: Set Context and learn how to shift from Ordinary to Extraordinary conversations.

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Building Love That Lasts Study Group Week #16

http://www.nextcultureradio.org/blog/radiant-joy-brilliant-love-week-1 6

EXPERIMENTS:

**1.*CREATE NON-MATERIAL VALUE Trust yourself to record your WorkTalks and Workshops. Download your Bright Principles and Possibilities so others can benefit. Share your recordings on your Website and in the Possibility Creation Village Group. This is your participation in the Transformation from a world of material value to Non-Material Value. Sourcing and creating Non-Material Value is a core element to shift from modern Culture - Patriarchy to Next Culture - Archiarchy.

**2.*Harry And Samantha: Harry and Samantha conversations are Clinton's favorite and can be accessed on [Youtube rmuCbBgXYVs
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