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Jewels Of Possibility

Jewels Of Possibility is a collection of 'treasure-map' articles written by inspired Possibilitators.

Each article opens a doorway to valuable new insights and options for the reader to choose from.

This is Ali Baba's cave and the door is open!

Steal all the Treasure you can and give it away everywhere! This is the kind of Treasure that grows by sharing it!

The Authors

Treasure Chest of Distinctions and StoriesHere are 'Jewels of Possibility'. Each article you read earns you 1 Matrix Point. (NOTE: The StartOver.xyz Team is still working out these Matrix Codes... so please come back and find them later.) To accumulate your Matrix Points, please register the given Matrix Code in your free account at StartOver.xyz.

Thank you for being an Edgeworker. Think about sharing what you discover in articles that you yourself write and publish... Writing them would make you an Edgewriter!

(NOTE: Articles are listed alphabetically by title, ignoring the word 'the'.)

3 Distinctions About Fear For Transformational Edgeworkers

by Devin Gleeson

Matrix Code JEWELS00.01

If transformation, evolution, and growth aren’t your thing, or if you cling to stability, sameness, and security, this article is not for you.

You believe that fear is bad, that it’s a feeling to avoid, ignore, hide, or overcome, and you’ve spent most of your life finding ways to run from it.

I know, I know, this is a pretty presumptuous way to kick off an article. I’ve generalized. It isn’t fair for me to make such statements about you, reader, who I’ve likely never met and who I may possibly never meet. And yet, if you’ve grown up in modern culture, where the only feeling that’s ok to feel is some neutered, anodyne, energy-less thing called 'good', then you’ve most likely gotten the same thoughtware around fear that we’ve all gotten. Namely, that it’s bad, gets in the way, isn’t helpful, blinds us, makes us chickens, makes us weak, etc., and that if we can avoid it, we should.

The ubiquity of this thoughtware implies that there might be something to it. If on one side we have US presidents telling us we have “nothing to fear but fear itself,” and on the other side we have spiritual gurus of every stripe assuring us that fear is just the opposite of love, who are we to raise objections?

The 3 Essential Components for Evolution

by Nicola Neumann-Mangoldt

Matrix Code JEWELS00.02

Recently a movement gains speed, which deals with new ways of working and new organizational structures. Around the globe there are more and more people and initiatives pursuing the vision of establishing a new and sustainable – for people as well as for the Earth – way of working and economizing. There are already great and inspiring practical examples of CEOs and teams, who courageously try new things, e. g. the company Semco in Brazil having among other free working time and total transparency of salaries, the company Gravity Payments in the States, where the CEO Dan Price guarantees each employee a minimum salary of 70.000 Dollars at the expense of his former high manager income or a mid-sized company in the Franconian Forest in Germany where employees focus according to their talents and inspiration on the tasks they love to do and for which they take radical responsibility. There are many more organizations taking courageous steps, but there is one thing they all have in common: they are all pioneers.

As impressed as many people are by these innovative examples, there are just as well other voices arguing: "Well, it works in their company, but it will certainly not work in our company or in another corporation." This is a favorite and comfortable excuse for not even starting to leave known paths and preventing change from happening. What many people are not aware of is the fact that there are 3 essential components for evolution:

(Related: , consciousfear, gononlinear, asking, gobeepshiftgo, and nothingnesss)

3 Months Without The Feminine (mostly)

by Kian Nasir

Matrix Code JEWELS00.03

I finished my experiment of having no contact, meaning no eye contact, no touching, and no talking more than necessary to women for 3 months.

To be transparent, I held the hand of one woman, hugged two women, and got touched by women before I could say stop. Furthermore, in the last month of this experiment, I started talking more to one woman that I lived with at that time who was dear to my heart and important to talk to for me. It was not a perfectly executed straight experiment. But nonetheless, I want to share about it.

The purpose of this experiment was to unmesh my energy as a man from the energy of the feminine. To find how my masculine energy feels like and to work with what comes up for me in this process. Also, I wanted to feel and hold my inner parts that are dependent on the feminine energy and feed on the energy women radiate.

3:30 Is the Line Between Heaven and Hell

by Kian Nasir

Matrix Code JEWELS00.04

At the moment I am working with the memes and memetic constructs (that which I think with) that I have to judge my life into 'that is good' and 'that is bad'. One distinction is that what is conscious or serves the evolution of consciousness is good. What is unconscious or does not serve the evolution of consciousness is bad.

When I hear that first, I even think that this is a good measurement stick to have.

But when I zoom in more it is an insane hell world I created for myself.

For Example. When I watch a tv show my line between Heaven and Hell starts at 3:30 hours...

3G Means: Good Girls Going...WILD

by Christine Ploschenz

Matrix Code JEWELS00.05

My name is Christine and this is not my name. Everything that I have been so far was given to me. My name, my jobs, my identity, even my thoughts and feelings. And I let this happen. Christine is a Box. A good girl box.

It took me 10 years to disidentify from that box because I was so consumed by it and what I know now is, that I have this box but I am not it.

Inside these walls is a woman who can ride a dragon and sometimes speaks as if she`s it! This is one of these moments.

I am angry ! And here is what I want to say: ...

4 Essential Aspects for Avoiding Stress and Burnout

by Nicola Neumann-Mangoldt

Matrix Code JEWELS00.06

With regard to a new way of working there is one topic which many employees wish to change. It is the topic of stress and burnout. It cannot be denied that stress at work is part of daily life in modern performance society and that the burnout rate increases undamped. The office for job strategy in Berlin (www.berufsstrategie.de) has brought it to the point in one of their articles: In modern working life the individual requirements increased considerably. However, oftentimes a factual overload is not picked out as a central theme for worries regarding the reputation or the working place. In addition, it is mainly the people who are very much willing to work who are overstressed and who tend to not admit this overload due to too much sense of responsibility.

4 Levels of Enmeshment That Prevent Adult, Fulfilling Relationship at Eye Level

by Nicola Neumann-Mangoldt

Matrix Code JEWELS00.07

When you are longing for a fulfilling, adult relationship at eye level, but find yourself over and over again in ordinary relationship, this could be due to an important aspect: The enmeshment of energies and personal spaces. This might sound weird at first. However it is one of the essential aspects why couples keep being stuck on the ordinary level. Let us therefore take a look at what’s behind it.

With regard to the evolution of relationship, the stage that follows the adolescent flirting stage is usually the relationship stage, which can be described as fusion. In this stage, low drama (the victim- persecutor-rescuer dynamic) and disputes are common. It is an emotional rollercoaster that feels pretty much alive at first, but in the end sucks a lot of energy. In this stage a certain co-dependency exists between the partners. This co-dependency might cause you to think that the partner is “yours” or that you “need them”. However, this kind of relationship is not an adult relationship at eye level, in which each partner owns their power and can take a stand for themselves.

(Related: decontaminations, lowdrama, adulthood, 3powers, and 8prisons)

7 Steps to Get Out of Resignation

by Nicola Neumann-Mangoldt

Matrix Code JEWELS00.08

Recently I saw a short speech of Matt Damon, the famous US actor. In his speech he analogously said "The government thinks that civil disobedience is the problem. But this is not our problem. Our problem is civil obedience. Our problem is the number of people all over the world who have obeyed the dictates of the leaders of their government...” Wise words, because this world could in fact be a different one if more people were more “civil disobedient”. This means nothing else than lowering your own numbness bar, feeling the pain about certain conditions and taking action instead of resigning. Resignation seems to be a topic affecting many people to a smaller or bigger extent. It can be the resignation about the current circumstances on Earth, ranging from wars, climate change, flows of refugees to destruction of nature and suppression, or it can be about the resignation in your own life, e. g. a boring, stressful job, an unfulfilling relationship or annoying neighbors.

It is helpful at this point to clarify what resignation actually means. Wikipedia defines resignation as follows: “(...) since the middle of the 19th century resignation describes the human attitude as: a mood of complying in an inevitable situation, e. g. in (felt) hopelessness.” When you resign, you give up. You give up the hope for change and think that you can’t change things anyway. Consequently you become a victim of circumstances.

100 Million Nanonations

by Clinton Callahan

Matrix Code JEWELS00.09

A 'superstition' is 'an easy-to-understand concept that has no basis in reality'. Believing a superstition blocks the perception of more useful possibilities. But superstitions are not called superstitions until they are recognized as superstitions. Before then they are regarded as the truth.

A superstition that participants in modern culture have not yet identified as a superstition is 'the nation-state'. This superstition became popular in the 1800s as a win-lose game ("If you get the resources we die, so we will do whatever it takes to get the resources."). This superstition includes the concept that a nation-state is connected to a piece of land on Earth. Since all the land on Earth has already been claimed by the current 206 nation-states, it is assumed that no new nation-states can emerge on Earth.

But the connection between a nation-state and a plot of land is not a law of nature. It is invented in the imaginations of human beings, pure fiction, a story marketed to you by - you guessed it! - the current set of nation-states!...

A Deeper Look At 7 Parenting Strategies That Seem Completely Normal

by Eva Daubert

Matrix Code JEWELS00.10

I am on the playground with my two-year-old son and the three-year-old son of a neighbor. It is a crisp morning, and the sun is just about to rise over the large willows at the edge of the playground. The two boys have only known each other briefly and are wandering about, uncertain what to do with themselves.

I am tired from an interrupted night’s sleep and am feeling glad that the two children have each other to play with. I also feel some fear, the uncertainty of how this will go, the responsibility of taking care of another child, wanting to create a safe space for them to explore in.

In their roaming around they both come across a shovel lying in the sand, and one nanosecond later they are both clinging to one side of it yelling “I want it” “No, me! I want it!”. They are full on: faces red with wrath, their bodies completely engaged in their wanting, feet stemmed deep in the sand, fists clenched around the object of desire. They are YELLING at each other. Again and again, the same words and sheer screams of Anger.

I notice my fear rising, I am starting to sweat. There is a part of me, I would call my Child Egostate, that wants to run away from conflict and loud, strong feelings. The grown up part of me is afraid that they will hurt themselves and instantly takes hold of the shovel, softly keeping it in the middle between them, just making sure neither of them starts lashing out at the other’s face with it.

My inner Evolutionary is alert, celebrating the undisturbed space and time that is unfolding around us. There is a knowing that I need to DO NOTHING...

(Related: possibilityparent.mystrikingly.com, archiarchy, consciousfear, selfobservation, archiarchalchildrensculture, and [Youtube sG9VrRq9Dfw
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