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PATH
- HOME
- START
- INTRODUCTION
- WHAT WHERE
- TRAINER NEEDED
- The Path
- PHOTO Team
- Knowing
- PHOTO Team
- Playing
- PHOTO Trainer Village
- Characteristics
- ARCHETYPAL LINEAGES
- Notes
- Skills
- FLYING NICOLE NM
- Experiments
- TP RESOURCES
- Questions
- Codex
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- HOME
- START
- INTRODUCTION
- WHAT WHERE
- TRAINER NEEDED
- The Path
- PHOTO Team
- Knowing
- PHOTO Team
- Playing
- PHOTO Trainer Village
- Characteristics
- ARCHETYPAL LINEAGES
- Notes
- Skills
- FLYING NICOLE NM
- Experiments
- TP RESOURCES
- Questions
- Codex
TRAINER
PATH
- HOME
- START
- INTRODUCTION
- WHAT WHERE
- TRAINER NEEDED
- The Path
- PHOTO Team
- Knowing
- PHOTO Team
- Playing
- PHOTO Trainer Village
- Characteristics
- ARCHETYPAL LINEAGES
- Notes
- Skills
- FLYING NICOLE NM
- Experiments
- TP RESOURCES
- Questions
- Codex
- …
- HOME
- START
- INTRODUCTION
- WHAT WHERE
- TRAINER NEEDED
- The Path
- PHOTO Team
- Knowing
- PHOTO Team
- Playing
- PHOTO Trainer Village
- Characteristics
- ARCHETYPAL LINEAGES
- Notes
- Skills
- FLYING NICOLE NM
- Experiments
- TP RESOURCES
- Questions
- Codex

Trainer Path is the transformational Path of being
a Possibility Management Trainer.
This Path has a beginning, but it has no end...
The Trainer Path is one of the Archiarchal specialty of the Possibilitator Training.
Archiarchy emerges through you building out your place in Archiarchy by delivering your Nonmaterial Value. It has become clear that certain Possibilitators are called to facilitate transformational thoughtware upgrades and support healing and authentic adulthood initiations through delivering Expand The Box Trainings and perhaps, later on, also Possibility Labs.
Delivering Possibility Trainer services with excellence for individuals, couples, groups, and gameworlds demands specific yet unusual preparations which begin by entering Possibilitator Training.
Leaving behind baggage and making the necessary leaps and shift-processes to serve as a Possibility Trainer is a life-long Path.
We call it the 'Trainer Path'.
ROADMAP
After seeing a video or reading a book or being at WorkTalks, Workshops, Possibility Team, Study Group, or Rage Club... the first big step is ETB.
Expand The Box
Possibility Labs
Deep Emotional Healing Processes (EHP), authentic adulthood initiations, stellating feelings archetypes, building matrix, all happens a PLabs.
Possibility Labs
Possibilitator Training
Once it is clear, a person commits to their Path. They have a Conversaview, and it they get a go, begin professional Possibilitator Training in earnest.
Possibilitator Training
Being a Trainer
One of the Possibilitator Training Archiarchy Specialties is being a Trainer in the radically responsible context of Possibility Management. If this is you, then you are home.
Being a Trainer
Practice Expand The Box
Contextual and practical instructions for preparing yourself to deliver your Practice Expand The Box.
Practice ETB
Possibility Lab Trainer
Contextual and practical instructions for preparing yourself to deliver Possibility Lab.

**THE TRAINER PATH**The 'Trainer Path' combines a Trainer Team on a Transformational Path.
Entering the Trainer Path starts by committing to the Trainer Path.
Can you commit to the Trainer Path?
Before committing, it might be useful to know what you are committing to.
What is the Trainer Path?
Moreover, what is a Trainer?
And, what is the Path?
A TRAINER TEAM
The Trainer Path is the team of Trainers apprenticing to become Expand The Box Trainer, and Trainers delivering Expand The Box Trainings, and Trainers delivering Possibility Labs.
In the Trainer Path, you are as much committed to your own Evolution and Transformation as you committed to the Evolution and Transformation of the people in your Circle and your colleagues on the Trainer Path. You support, love and create possibility each other to shift your Point of Origin from ordinary modern culture to your own unique extraordinary responsibly-contexted culture and becoming a space through which your Bright Principles and Archetypal Lineage can do their work in the world.
The Trainer Path helps each other succeed, not to success.
In the Trainer Path, healers heal healers. You heal each other by going through and holding space for every emotional healing process free of monetary cost.
Some Trainer's Archetypal Lineage is to be a Trainer-Trainer or a Trainer-Trainer Trainer. The Trainer-Trainer's job is to train Possibilitators to become Expand The Box Trainers, and Possibility Lab Trainers.
The Trainer Path creatively collaborates with Trainers and Gameworlds from other contexts to juice up Next Culture gameworlds with the powerful distinctions and initiations discovered in Possibility Management.
TRANSFORMATIONAL PATH
Becoming an Expand The Box Trainer requires that you shed, transform and Morph facets of your Box that are in the way for you to become an Expand The Box Trainer.
The Transformational Path of the Trainer Path prepares and open doors for you to:
- Go through the necessary 64 shift-processes to become an Expand The Box Trainer and/or a Possibility Lab Trainer.
- Keep improving the skills and technology needed to be an Expand The Box Trainer and/or a Possibility Lab Trainer.
- Ongoingly update yourself on the latest discoveries of PM processes, PM thoughtmaps, distinctions and context upgrade.
The Trainer Path is supported by many spaces where Trainers meet and practice new skills.
- Expand The Box Trainings
- Emotional Healing Processes such as EHP Dojo
- Possibility Labs
- Possibility Teams
- Rage Club Spaceholder Training
- Fear Club Spaceholder Training
- Mage Spaceholder Training
- Trainer Path Lab
- Trainer Research Days
A TRAINER IS NOT AN EDUCATOR
A Trainer is not an Educator.
An Educator teaches to others what to know from the Educator's position of already knowing. An Educator adds knowledge to already existing 'knowledge continents', and promotes Defensive Learning - learning something new only when it fits with what you already know.
An Educator is not a Trainer.
A Trainer stands in the nature of reality - nothingness and groundlessness - holds and navigates space for participants to discover what they didn't know they didn't know about. A Trainer lands whatever distinction is needed by your clients and participants. The Trainer as well as the participants navigate spaces of expansive learning - where the learning doesn't build on previous knowledge but comes out of a different knowledge continent. To create a different knowledge continent, the Trainer creates a space with a Point Of Origin anchored in a different context than the context of Modern Culture. In that sense, your training is also a transformational school. Good news that you are in one too!
There is many many schools for educators. Almost every schooling system in the world is a school to teach teachers. There are almost no schools for Trainers. You have found one.
Yes, it is true that from time to time your Trainer job in the moment might be to incite Education. In these moments there is the Clarity that in actuality, you cannot teach a person anything, but anyone can learn whatever they want. It is not about you.
AN EXPAND THE BOX TRAINER
In the PM gameworld we pay Attention to the name of things. This is what we have figured out.
- A 'Possibility Manager' is someone who loves and uses Possibility Management personally and professionally.
- A 'Possibility Coach' is someone who has been through at least 5 Possibility Labs, watched the 100 Possibility Coaching demonstration videos at Create Possibility, has made their Possibility Coach website, and is delivering professional paid online-or-offline Possibility Coaching sessions.
- A 'Possibilitator' is someone who has made a true commitment to themselves to be on the Possibilitator Path including a commitment to participating in at least 10 Possibility Labs over several years, and 3 or more ETBs with different Trainers.
- A 'Possibility Trainer' or 'Possibility Management Trainer' is someone:
- Who has been a committed participant in Possibilitator Training
- Who has built up their Circle by going through the 10 Possibilitator Doorways
- Who has discovered along that way that their 'Possibilitator Specialty' is 'Trainer',
- Who has been asked by the Possibility Management Infinity Ring Trainer-Training Node to deliver a 'Practice Expand The Box Training' in their presence
- Who has delivered their Practice Expand The Box Training and was certified by the Possibility Management Infinity Ring Trainer-Training Node to be an 'ETB Trainer', and
- Who is now delivering paid Expand The Box trainings.
A PIRATE ON A PIRATE TEAM
"I am free, no matter what rules surround me. If I find them tolerable, I tolerate them. If I find them obnoxious, I break them. I am free because I know that I alone am morally responsible for everything I do." - Robert H. Heinlein.
A participant once said, in a Heal From School Lab that one of their biggest fear to abandon all rules (this would also include abandoning all constructs such as School, the Corporation, a Government, Hierarchies and the Economy, as any form of justifications for your behaviours) is that without any rules, Gremlin rules.
It is outrageous to make the suggestion that the entire population of the Trainer Path might be Pirates.
It is even scarier to make such promotion at the risk of empowering extremely well-defended and well-justified unconscious 'Trainer' Gremlin to 'do whatever the hell they want' under the banner of Being a Pirate. One of the traps of gaining Clarity is that a clever Gremlin can hijack its language to serves its own survival purposes, and along the way fool the owner of said Gremlin about what is really going on. (Avoiding any misunderstanding, I do not mean that Clarity can serve the 'dark side'. Clarity is a Bright Principle. Gremlins can, however, twist the language of Clarity.)
And at the same time, how can you be a Trainer and not be a Pirate?
In Possibility Management, Pirate is written with a capital 'P' to distinguish it from the ordinary small 'p' pirate who cheats, deceives, lies, and steal to serve the unconscious purposes of their Gremlin, Demon and Survival Strategy.
A Pirate (capital 'P') lives, works, and plays within a self-determined transformed Gremlin, decontaminated-phase 2 Adulthood Context of Radical Responsibility, Radical Honesty, Radical Simplicity, Radical Relating, and Radical Reliance on their Infinite internal and external Resources, such as The Pearl, Bright Principles, Archetypal Lineage, Earth Coincidence Control Office (E.C.C.O.), the Unknown, the Void of Nothingness, on so on.
If a Trainer is not a Pirate, then you are hookable by any of the rules you Believe to be immovably true. From the identity of a Pirate, there is no such thing as an immovable rule. There is only Radically Responsible Choosing followed by consequences. Karma does exist. Action and inaction (and fake action...) have consequences in Reality.
How do Pirates who are not bound by morality, niceties, social constructs, assumptions, expectations, conclusions, judgments, projections, opinions, beliefs or even protocols even talk to each other? Even more, how do they Collaborate with each other? A more appropriate question is: How can Trainers talk to each other, even more, collaborate with each other, if they are not Unhookable in the face of morality, niceties, social constructs, assumptions, expectations, conclusions, judgments, projections, opinions, beliefs or even protocols? There is only one way to find the answers to these crucial Questions: Experiment!AN EXPERIMENTER
Trainer Path is an Evolutionary Path.
Step after step the Trainer Path is explored through doing Experiments.
Why are evolutionary steps taken Experiments? Because you cannot know if your efforts will cause useful outcomes or not. Each thing you try is an Experiment!
The reason it is important to Stand in the view that being on Trainer Path involves an Identity Shift to being an Experimenter is because: Experiments are done by Experimenters.
Experimenters do Experiments. They cannot avoid it.
This explains a lot about your life, especially if you wish to explain about your life to someone else.
Almost any question someone can ask you about why you are doing what you are doing even it it does not give you more credibility in the Values of the Capitalist Patriarchal Empire can be excellently answered by enthusiastically saying the following four words, "I am an Experimenter!"
But then it should be true that you are actually an Experimenter!
How can you prove that you are an Experimenter?
By Experimenting!
By the way, this website might become your new best friend: https://becomeanexperimenter.mystrikingly.com
A PERSON OF AGENCY
One of the true joys of Trainer Path is having E.C.C.O. throw you into situations you have never been in before that demand Immediate Alchemical Action.
In these circumstances you are invited / challenged / requested to Pull The Rug Out from under current reality and cause New Results, to Cause Transformation, to Cause Adventure, to cause Aliveness... even if you are not familiar with the terrain.
"Agency... capacity to act." (From the novel Agency by William Gibson, page 31.)
A Trainer Pather is, by Necessity, a Person Of Agency.
Yes, by Necessity. One of the key secret ingredients for you being a Trainer is Creating Authentic Necessity for you being in action as a Trainer, Committing to that Necessity, then letting the rest of your life fall where it may.
Authentic Necessity is not created at the Bullshit level of Stories, Assumptions, Expectations, etc. Authentic Necessity starts with changing the shape of your Being, which as a result, forces the Universe to interact with you differently than it did before.
Any questions?
Good!
Go!

HOW DO YOU KNOW?
How does the Universe know that you are an Expand The Box Trainer?
Or, a Possibility Lab Trainer?
CAN YOU BE ON THE TRAINER PATH TEAM?
Trainer Path is but one of dozens of Possibilitator Specialties emerging during the two to five years of Possibilitator Training. Trainer Path is NOT the space to decide if your destiny is to be a Trainer. Your Trainer knacks become clear through what you create while going through the 10 Doorways of the Possibilitator Path.
Ninety-five percent of participants in the Possibilitator Training are NOT destined to be Possibility Trainers. They have other destinies needed in Archiarchy.
Developing your Trainer skills depend on you already having developed your Possibilitator Skills.
Trainer Path is your Process of refining and strengthening the exact skills you need to serve as an Expand The Box Trainer, and then, possibly, as a Possibility Lab Trainer.
The only remaining question is: can you be on the Team?
The Trainer Path uses Torus Technology as its meeting and decision technology. This includes the use of the Amoeba Process, which relieves any one person in the Trainer gameworld to have to decide if "you are in or not". The Amoeba Process is an organic inclusion process that relies on the gameworld to 'eat' a new member when it has become obvious that this person is needed for the bien-être of the gameworld.
When is it obvious that you are on the Trainer Path Team? You are on the Team when the Legends of your actions align with the Purpose of the Trainer Path and when the Trainer Team ongoingly experiences your Creative and Collaborative Communications.
This means, you have completely and thoroughly been through the adolescent phase of making Assumptions, turning them into Expectations, so they could be broken and your Gremlin can feed on Resentment and take Revenge on the Possibility Management gameworld as a whole, on the Trainer Path gameworld, or any one Trainer or Possibilitaotr. The only purpose to make assumptions in the first place is to have 'a good reason' to hate whom you already hate in the first. The healing process from Revenge requires a public process (online or offline) with every Trainers that you have hated and taken revenge on, and completely and absolutely let your Box die by apologizing that you could even think about using the Trainer Path as food for your Gremlin. Until that process is completed, there is not a chance for you to get anywhere close to the Trainer Path. We are not interested in Child-Gremlin-Parent offers. The ball is in your court.
This also means that you have absolutely learn to keep your center from Possibility Management at all time. You categorically refuse to blame, resentment, be victimized by any of the distinctions or process of Possibility Management, or any of the feedback, coaching and possibility you receive from your Possibilitator Team. You have learned to take care of yourself 100% around anybody while staying Radically Relating with you Team.
In addition, if you find your Gremlin complaining and comparing your Path to other people's Path - by thinking, for example, 'how come I have to do that when that other person did not have to!', this would be a strong sign that you are still allowing your Gremlin to have considerations about your Trainer Path. If you think the Trainer Path is a fair gameworld, or respond to the concept of equality, you are in the wrong gameworld. If you want to do something about it, please go through as many Emotional Healing Processes it takes for you to enter and source the unreasonably Extraordinary context of the Trainer Path.
HOW TO QUALIFY FOR BEING ON THE TRAINER PATH
All Possibility Management Trainers - this means Possibilitator Training Trainer Path Specialists, ETB Apprentice Trainers, ETB Trainers, PLab Apprentice Trainers, and PLab Trainers - are on the Trainer Path, because a Trainer's Path never ends. There is 'no top end' on the Trainer Path. It does not work to think you are a Possibility Trainer and not be on the Trainer Path.
The Trainer Path does NOT include Inactive Trainers, or Trainers who are delivering predominantly mixed-context work. An 'Inactive ETB Trainer' is an ETB Trainer who has NOT delivered an online-or-offline ETB during the previous 12 months. An 'Inactive PLab Trainer' is a PLab Trainer who has NOT delivered an in-person PLab during the previous 12 months.
HINT: Check with your 3Cell, your Possibility Coach, your Possibilitator colleagues, and your Possibility Team multiple times about how you are doing with each of the following elements on this list of Practice Expand The Box qualifications BEFORE you trouble your Trainer Path Team with giving you feedback and coaching about these things.
NOTE: Many Emotional Healing Processes (EHP) may be required for you to become a person who can become a qualification which you have been avoiding.
- COMMIT TO TRAINER PATH: Get ready to discover that you do not know how to Commit. Get ready to face into your clever strategies for avoiding Radical Responsibility through avoiding Commitment, avoiding Taking A Stand, avoiding giving Your Word, avoiding Integrity, avoiding Accountability. Your destiny lights up as you Commit to the Possibilitator Specialty of the Trainer Path.
- RADICALLY RELATE WITH OTHER TRAINER PATHERS: You use Collaborative Communication to Radically Relate with the other Trainer Pathers. Giving feedback and coaching is NOT collaboratively communication. Giving feedback and coaching is keeping yourself away and unconcerned with the transformational journey of your Trainer colleague. Pressure Rapid Learning is a useful skill in a fast training environment to try as many different behaviours as you can, it is not a tool to radically relate with other Trainers.
- COMPLETE THE POSSIBILITATOR TRAINING 10 DOORWAYS: You complete the 10 Doorways of Possibilitator Training.
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MEMORIZE THE TRAINER PATH GAMEWORLD CODEX AND RULES OF ENGAGEMENT: You literally memorize the contents of the following 4 websites made specifically to support you on the Trainer Path:
- index.php?p=practiceexpandthebox
- PARTICIPATE ENTHUSIASTICALLY IN TRAINER PATH OPPORTUNITIES: You regularly participate in Trainer Path calls, Trainer Path Labs, Trainer Research Days, etc.
- PARTICIPATE ENTHUSIASTICALLY IN AT LEAST 10 POSSIBILITY LABS: On the Trainer Path, you actively participate in a minimum of 10 Possibility Labs with different Trainers around the world over a period of 2-4 years. PLabs are where you integrate the distinctions and thoughtmaps of Possibility Management into practical use in your 5-Bodies for you daily life. Somewhere along the path (often after Possibility Lab #6 or #7) you will hopefully relocate your Point Of Origin into the context of Extraordinary (Radical Responsibility, Unhookability, Radical Relating, High Drama, etc.) and simply refuse to move it back. This might make you think that you have gotten all you can from PLabs. What we have found is that by doing Possibility Labs #8, #9, #10, you start gaining access to the Archetypal Domains. The processes you go through in Expand The Box Trainings and Possibility Labs are authentic adulthood initiatory processes. If you do not experience each adulthood initiation personally yourself, how useful would you be trying to Navigate these processes for someone else? The alchemist takes her own medicine before giving it to her client.
- PARTICPATE ENTHUSIASTICALLY IN 10 ADDITIONAL EXPAND THE BOX TRAININGS: In Trainer Path, you participate in a minimum of 10 additional Expand The Box trainings, in various locations with various Trainers, at least 5 of these as an Apprentice Expand The Box Trainer at the side of an already certified Expand The Box Trainer. Each Expand The Box Training is unique in and of itself, AND it is also unique for you, because you are evolving. Expand The Box Training is full of Distinctions and Initiations. During your first Expand The Box Training you might 'get' 10-20% of the Distinctions offered. You will most probably totally forget some Thoughtmaps. In each Expand The Box Training, you dive deeper into the brilliance and potential of each of the 40 Thoughtmaps delivered in ETB. Participating in Expand The Box Trainings as an Apprentice Expand The Box Trainer includes that you have negotiated with the certified Expand The Box Trainer to have meetings during breaks where you ask authentic questions, ask for and receive possibility for you to be even more at risk, and take any opportunity to deepen your own Expand The Box context.
- KEEP PARTICIPATING IN PLABS: You continue participating is further Possibility Labs and Specialty Labs even while you are delivering Expand The Box trainings.
- EARN 2000 MATRIX POINTS IN STARTOVER.XYZ: You have registered over 2000 Matrix Points in the StartOver.xyz free-to-play massively-multiplayer online-and-offline matrix-building thoughtware-upgrade personal-transformation true-life adventure-game.
- READ POSSIBILITATOR BOOKS: You have read over 100 of the more than 250 recommended books from index.php?p=possibilitybooks.
- WATCH POSSIBILITATOR FILMS: You have watched over 200 of the more than 350 recommended films from index.php?p=possibilityfilms.
- SERVE IN ALL 4 ARCHETYPAL LINEAGES: A Possibility Trainer is a Generalist, not a Specialist. Some people think that a 'Jack-Of-All-Trades is the Master of none.' This means they are afraid to realize that a Jack-Of-All-Trades is a Master of the Jack-Of-All-Trades Trade. Use Feedback and Coaching to find out which of the 4 Archetypal Lineages you are weakest in, and do whatever it takes to gain the necessary skills to ongoingly create valuable results in all 4 Archetypal Lineage categories: Guardian, Village Weaver, Evolutionary, and Gameworld Builder. Learning these skills will undoubtedly necessitate numerous EHPs and Go-Beep-Shift-Go sessions with real-time feedback and coaching from your Teams.
- YOUR WEBSITE: You have already built your own Possibilitator Trainer Path website with your articles, your videos, your WorkTalks and Workshops, and the services you provide.
- WRITE YOUR ARTICLES: You are already writing and publishing at least one 3-5 page Article each month relating to Possibility Management experiences, possibilities, distinctions, healings, discoveries, etc.
- POSSIBILITY TEAM: You have already been Navigating both Nonlinear and Unreasonable Space at your own weekly online-or-offline Possibility Team or Study Group for more than one year. Start with two or three people if you have to. There are many options in Possibility Team. For example, each week you can read one S.P.A.R.K. and do the S.P.A.R.K. experiments together. During the week, keep doing the experiment. The following week check-in about the results and insights your team has during the week. Then do the next SPARK. There are over 230 SPARKs in English, enough for more than 4 years.
- EMOTIONAL HEALING INTENSIVE: At some point early on during your Trainer Path you arrange a Team of EHP Spaceholders (something around 6 EHP facilitators, and perhaps also reserve a place in an EHP Dojo) to rotate being 'on-duty' for you 24 hours a day for a minimum of two weeks so that you can do an Emotional Healing Intensive, which is Noticing and immediately use EVERY Emotion that arises as a Doorway for an Emotional Healing Process right then. No delay. No procrastination. It does not matter if your next emotion comes 5 minutes after completing your most recent EHP, you alert your Team and you go through your Process immediately. Trust the Process! Be SURE to make abundant notes in your Beep! Book to track all that comes up and all that happens, including date, time, Spaceholder(s), triggers, emotions that arise, Voices in your head, old decisions, new decisions, Energetic Blocks banished, Energetic Parts retrieved, and a clear formulation of your new or modified Practices. Writing it all down is exceptionally important. If you don't write it down, it did not happen.
- GREMLIN TRANSFORMATION: You have Transformed your Gremlin with the guidance of a paid Gremlin Transformation Coach to be at your side as an agent of Radical Clarity and Nonlinear Possibility. This is a one-year Process. Your Gremlin sits at your side as an ally in daily life.
- ADULT EGOSTATE DECONTAMINATIONS: Thoroughly Decontaminate your Adult Egostate from your Child, Parent, Gremlin, and Demon Egostates under the guidance of a paid Decontamination Coach. This is a two-year Process. The decontamination process includes recovering from the addiction of Gremlin Violence, Gremlin Self Cannibalism and Dramaholism.
- RAGE CLUB: After participating in your first Expand The Box Training, attend an Introduction to Rage Club. Then participate in an online-or-offline Rage Club (4-8 week Series) including the 3-3-3 Anger Practice . Then deliver 5 Rage Club Intro WorkTalks yourself. Then apply to participate in a Rage Club Spaceholder Training (6-8 weeks). Then start delivering your own online-or-offline Rage Clubs (4-8 weeks). We strongly suggest that from time-to-time you join another Trainer's Rage Club again as a participant so as to keep deepening your Context and building your own Matrix about Anger, Space Navigating, and Transformation.
- FEAR CLUB: After participating in your first *Rage*Club, attend an Introduction to Fear Club. Then participate in an online-or-offline Fear Club (4-8 week Series) including the 3-3-3 Fear Practice. Then deliver 5 Fear Club Intro WorkTalks yourself. Then apply to participate in a Fear Club Spaceholder Training (6-8 weeks). Then start delivering your own online-or-offline Fear Clubs (4-8 weeks). We strongly suggest that from time-to-time you join some other Trainer's Fear Club again as a participant so as to keep deepening your Context and building your own Matrix about Fear, Space Navigating, and Transformation.
- BUILD YOUR CIRCLE: You build up Your Circle to at least 700 readers on your mailing list (not just dead email addresses, but actual readers who open your messages) to whom you send your monthly Newsletter. (We estimate that at most 3% of your Circle will be ready to enroll in your Expand The Box training at any one time. 700 x .03 = 21 paid ETB participants)
- ESCAPE THE 8 PRISONS: You have already escaped the 8 Prisons, in reality, not in your imagination. We will test you.
- BECOME A GLOBAL CITIZEN: You have already become a Global Citizen and a Cultural Creative by traveling on foot and with backpack alone through South East Asia or Africa for a minimum of 6 – 24 months.
- FIND YOUR BRAIN COLOR: You know what Brain Color is dominant in your head, and you can identify and relate with the other brain colors well.
- LIVE IN EXPERIENTIAL REALITY: You have already shifted out of Verbal Reality and live in Experiential Reality.
- YOU HAVE ENTERED ADULTHOOD: Your Mother and Father are truly behind you as your Ancestors so that you have already entered the domain of Adulthood.
- STELLATED ALL 4 FEELINGS: You have Stellated all 4 Feelings and turned on your Feelings Archetypes in your daily life.
- THE WALL: You have faced The Wall.
- FLOOR PROCESSES: You have gone through, and also navigated for others, all 13 Floor Processes.
- REACTIVITY: You have dismantled your Reactivity.
- BECAME UNHOOKABLE: You are essentially Unhookable through using your 13 Tools in your daily life.
- LIVE IN ARCHIARCHAL ECONOMICS: You are delivering enthusiastically and unreasonably your Nonmaterial Value that you do not have time for your corporate job and live in Archiarchal Economics because you are already making more than enough money to thrive (not just survive…) at the fringes of modern culture through delivering paid:
- Worktalks.
- Workshops.
- Completing Incomplete Emotions Parties.
- Individual online-or-offline Possibility Coaching sessions (5/week).
- Rage Clubs.
- Fear Clubs.
- Gremlin Transformations.
- Adult Egostate Decontaminations.
- COLLABORATIVE RELATING WITH A PARTNER: What is your life truly like behind closed doors? Being a Possibility Trainer is not a show, it is a lifestyle. In this day and age, everybody is crazy. How can you experience sanity in modern culture's insane gameworlds with all those other insane naked monkeys? The way is through Collaborative Relating. If you are Accountable, if you do Completion Loops, if you can consciously Listen, if you actually do what you say you are going to do in Integrity, if you have made your Relating Space into a Gremlin-Free Zone, if you Say What You Want, if you Make Boundaries, are not Adaptive, refuse to do Low Drama, and refuse to be Abused, you are doing Collaborative Relating. 'The proof is in the pudding', so they say, and the pudding shows up at home behind closed doors. You have Evolved your Relating to the Adulthood level with your partner… which implies that you are relating with a partner. If you are not living with a partner, start by reading S.P.A.R.K. 157.
- TECHNOPENURIAPHOBIA HEALING: You have escaped from Technopenuriaphobia because you can sleep outside in the forest or desert alone for three nights, you can start a fire by rubbing 2 stick together (and 5 other ways without matches or a lighter), you can identify and eat dandelions, you can drive a stick-shift manual-transmission vehicle and can change a flat tire, you can cook a feast for 13 people, you can juggle 3 things, you can sing a song, you can find the North Star or the Southern Cross, you carry the Death Prayer and can deliver it.
- HEAL FROM SCHOOL: There are so many countless wounds and scars that you carry from modern culture schooling, so much wasted time, so much lost potential. It takes tremendous courage, but you can do it: Heal From School.
- PIRATE JOKES: You can tell the 6 Pirate Jokes so they land in the Space.
- SKILLED IN FIRST AID AND HANDLING EMERGENCIES: You carry a valid Red Cross First Aid Certification card that includes training in Artificial Resuscitation and the proper use of a Defibrillator.
- TORUS MEETING TECHNOLOGY AND PROCESSES: Modern culture functions using hierarchical organizations. This is a terribly costly design error. Hierarchy guarantees hijacking from psychopaths, because the personality who can best do whatever it takes to gain a position of power is the psychopath. You refuse to participate in hierarchical spaces, and can replace any hierarchy with a toroidal meeting. You carry a Purple Card for use in Torus Technology meetings and you can liberate creative chaos using Torus Meeting processes. You are already implementing Torus Technology in the gameworlds you participate in, including Torus Technology Thoughtmaps, tools, and Processes.
- ARCHIARCHY KIVA: You have joined the Archiarchy Kiva Team and have moved at least 100€ of your own money to circulate around the world in 25€ rotating microloans through the Archiarchy Kiva Team.
- ECOVILLAGE UNDERWORLDS: You have become less naïve through living in one Ecovillage for at least 3 months and visiting several others to get a taste of the Upperworld, Middleworld, and Underworld of Gaian Gameworlds.
- COLLABORATIVE GAMEWORLD BUILDING: You have started to build out new gamespace in the Possibility Management global gameworld as a Bridge to Archiarchy through delivering your services.
- CAVITATE, HOLD AND NAVIGATE RADICAL RESPONSIBILITY SPACES: You can already Cavitate, Hold and Navigate Space that is Contexted in Radical Responsibility.
- SET CONTEXT FOR HEALING AND INITIATION: You can already Set Context for and Navigate 3 Phase Healing Liquid States and Adulthood Initiatory Processes in Transformational Space.
- EXITED SELF-REFERENCING SPACEHOLDING: You have expanded your restricting sphincters to the degree that your Bright Principles and Archetypal Lineage are not limited to work through your worldview, your own experiences. Your Bright Principles and Archetypal Lineage come through inhibited.
- DISTINCTIONARY.XYZ: You have read and studies the Distinctionary all the way through at least once.
- LANDING DISTINCTIONS IN SPACES:You can land the definitions for Patriarchy, Psychopath, Zombie, Archiarchy, Possibilitator, Nonmaterial Value, Gremlin, and Radical Responsibility in any training Space.
- MORE THAN 100 S.P.A.R.K.s: You have Studied and done the Experiments in more than 100 S.P.A.R.K.s, and you have registered the S.P.A.R.K. Matrix Codes in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
- A LIFE OF LEARNING: You have created for yourself a Life Of Learning even if your mother does not understand.
- A LIFE OF PRACTICE: You have created for yourself a Life Of Practice even if it drives your father crazy.
- GETTING RID OF YOUR BAGGAGE: You have offloaded 50% of your Baggage that has built up over the years, consisting of Assumptions, Beliefs, Conclusions, Confusion, Denial, Expectations, Fear Of Connection, Judgements, Justifications, Lying, Manipulation, Positionality, Prejudices, Projections, Reactivity, Reasons, Resentment, Revenge, Self Deception, and Stories.
- MEMETIC ENGINEERING: You understand Memetics and can deliver Memetic Engineering to locate and transform Memetic Constructs such as Beliefs, Brain Splits, Mind Machines, Healing From Monogamy, and other Baggage.
- CLOSED THE CAFÉ:You have permanently closed the vampire demon Café and are an active Trigger Hunter.
- EXITED YOUR FANTASY WORLDS: You have already banished over 90% of the vampire Fantasy Worlds sucking out your life energy causing you to be naïve and diminished.
- POSSIBILITY COACHING SESSIONS: You deliver online-and-offline Possibility Coaching sessions with an average of 5 paid clients per week.
- RETRIEVED YOUR BALLS AND YOUR CENTER: You have permanently taken your Balls back from your mother and your Center back from your father.
- LEAVE PATRIARCHY, BECOME ARCHAN: You have Shifted Your Identity, relocated your Point Of Origin, moved out of Patriarchy, and are already an Archan.
- OWNING YOUR BOX PROGRAMMING: You know which of the 18 Standard Boxes you cobbed together to create your Box's primary Survival Strategy, and through Self Observation you know your Parts. You are bringing your various Identities into a singular 'I', and you own your Box. Your Box's Nits do not take over your life or your relating anymore.
- SHIFTED IDENTITY TO TRAINER: You love, and are fed, nurtured, and endlessly inspired by Being A Trainer, especially outside of training spaces. This is not something you force on yourself. It is not work. It is home, finally. The world is yours to play in, to create valuable results. You look into your eyes in the mirror and you see standing there a Possibility Trainer.
- JACKED INTO THE SOURCE OF THE THOUGHTMAPS: You have jacked-in to the Source of each of the 40 to 50 core Thoughtmaps of Expand The Box Training – and can deliver them without using 'cheat' cards or notes. You do not own the Thoughtmaps only from your mind, but rediscover each Thoughtmap anew each time you deliver it, from the Source of each Thoughtmap, so that each Thoughtmap lands fresh in the Training Space and in each Participant's 5 Bodies.
- JACKED INTO THE SOURCE OF THE PROCESSES: You have jacked-into the Source of each of the Processes necessary for a Training Space to be called an Expand The BoxTraining. The Spaces that you Navigate and the Processes you deliver are clear and strong enough to qualify your people to participate in Possibility Labs.
- CREATIVE COLLABORATION RATHER THAN RIGHT / WRONG OR GOOD / BAD: Your relating and collaborating ongoingly emerges from the Adulthood context of "Yes, and..." creative collaboration, Invention, and Improvising, rather than still being at your parent's home or back in school, desperately looking for the 'right answer' so you do not get punished again. Instead, you remain totally amazed, and you Improvise from the Free And Natural Adult Egostate.
- CULTURE-TO-CULTURE CONVERSATION: You remain Centered in First Position and respect your own Culture at least as much as - and perhaps a little more than - you respect the Culture / Gameworld / Context of others.
- THROUGH THE EYE OF THE NEEDLE: You can build a solid foundation in your Participants of Distinctions, Matrix, and Liquid States to be able to fully engage and integrate the results of the authentic adulthood and archetypal initiatory processes delivered in Possibility Labs. In other words, you bring ETB participants through the Eye Of The Needle into an ecstatic life of evolution, discovery, healing, and transformation.
- PRACTICAL GENEROSITY: After you sucessfully deliver your Practice Expand The Box, you pay the €650 fee for having your Trainer profile on http://possibilitymanagement.org.
The reason why all these skills, all these processes, all these precisions, all these books and films, all these websites, all these experiments, and all this Matrix-Building is so important is that exactly these resources are required to deliver Expand The Box Trainings. How do we know this? We learned it the long, slow, hard, painful way from decades of delivering Expand The Box trainings! Exactly these things are what prepare you to deal with what actually is going on in Expand The Box Trainings. You gaining these capacities is what makes it safe and possible for healing and transformation to occur in reality in Expand The Box.
This list is copied from index.php?p=practiceexpandthebox (revised 8 October 2022)

PLAYING FULL OUT ON THE PATH
YOUR PROBLEMS GET BIGGER
Upon entering the Trainer Path, your problems get bigger.
The Trainer Path happens only if someone sources it. Who sources the Trainer Path? That would be you and every other Trainer. Each team member sources the Team at the level of responsibility and matrix from which they can source the Team.
When you enter the Trainer Path, most people can source the Team better than you can. So what? They have worked hard and build the matrix to do so by sourcing the Team when others could do it better than them. This is the organism of the Team, team members keep replacing themselves where they are competent. The result is no one is perfectly competent where they are. Everyone is learning to source what they don't know how to source yet. This is an evolutionary gameworld.
Every dimensions of the Trainer Path needs sourcing and more, the dimensions that do not exist yet are waiting to be discovered and brought into the lightspeed spaceship of the Trainer Path.
There are different spaceholding circles bringing together the Trainer Pathers who take a certain level of responsibility in the gameworld of the Trainer Path such as:
- Spaceholders of the Trainer Path Possibilitator Specialty: Anne-Chloé Destremau and Clinton Callahan
- The Trainer Training Node of the PM Infinity Ring: Clinton Callahan, Anne-Chloé Destremau, Vera Franco, Cornelius Butz & Ana Norambuena
- The Possibilitator Training Infinity Ring: Ana Norambuena, Vera Franco, Anne-Chloé Destremau (and to some degree Clinton Callahan)
YOU ARE AN ACTIVE PLAYER IN THE GAMEWORLD OF POSSIBILITY MANAGEMENT
At a certain point on your Trainer Path, your perspective will shift from a personal one to a gameworld-wide one. This shift happens while you are on the Trainer Path. Your question(s) will shift from: how can I be a better Trainer? to What am I doing to make Possibility Management and Archiarchy happen right now?
From this perspective, being on the Team means you act not only for your own benefit, or gameworld but for the benefit of the Possibility Management Trainer Guild itself.
As a Trainer Pathwalkers, you become an active player in the Possibility Management gameworld by taking responsibility and sourcing more and more of the following:
- You create legend-making actions on your own behalf in the name of the Possibility Management Trainer Path.
- You build a team who love Possibility Management and collaborate with you to grow the context in their local area.
- You leave post-cards and flyers leaving seed for your work in Possibility Management as well as Possibility Management books in bookstores, cafés, centers, schools, city halls, wherever you go.
- You create outfits, dances, or theater pieces for the Trainer Path and you showcase them in talks, workshops, festivals, trainings, YouTube videos and on your website.
- You regularly attend conferences, summit, festivals, fairs to deliver talks, workshops and presentation and synergistic connections in the name of Possibility Management.
- You collect notes, ideas, distinctions and starting to write The Book to share with people what you are learning from the context of radical responsibility and / or the thoughtware, tools, processes and training of Possibility Management.
- You make and upload a stream of [Youtube QbbwwIwPYJ4
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